If I ever get published there are a couple of people in particular and AW in general who will be getting giant thanks in my acknowledgment section. Don't know where I'd be without y'all!
To the Absolute Write Water Cooler guys—without you I’d never have learned enough to get this book published. Special thanks to JCD, God of Query Hell, my betas Mumut, Paichka and Carmy for their time and insightful comments. Another thanks to Jennontheisland for explaining publishing thingies in plain English, and of course the BIC crew who whipped me and made me get it done, even when I thought my eyes would bleed from having to look at this one last time. Yo Anis! I did it!
If I ever get published there are a couple of people in particular and AW in general who will be getting giant thanks in my acknowledgment section. Don't know where I'd be without y'all!
My wife gave me the support needed to see it through. My book is dedicated to her. In the end, for the reasons above, nobody has done more for my writing than my wife.
BTW, can I bribe you with that thing with whipped cream and glace cherries?
Being the military wife, I can relate to much of this and admire that you are aware of what we do. I too left a HUGE career so that he could concentrate on serving his country, furthering his education while I provided the 'nest' and nurtured the kids. It's not a choice for everyone, but it's worked best for our family. And for those times when I was a single parent, a career would have just been in the way. In return, all that goes into being a writer, he's been there for me--and HE'S the one that pushed me to put my stories on paper...and, oh how he goes ballistic when a rejection arrives from an agent...my hero, eh?For me, I dedicated the book to my wife and also included a bit about her sticking by me through the good times and the bad in the acks.
It wasn't all about just the writing time. She encouraged me and guided me through some difficult parts in my life. She gave me inspiration to write and spent many a night alone in bed while I learnt the craft here at AW and typed away on my MS. She shared in the moment I got an agent and the moment I got a publisher. She read my book cover to cover even though she doesn't normally read my genre. She changed the nappies when I had an inspirational moment and couldn't leave the keyboard. She told all of her friends about my book and how proud she was of me for writing it. She gave birth to my fist Son alone when I was busy in Iraq and cared for the boys when the Army needed me in some other place. She gave up a promising career so I could give mine a go.
So, this book could not, and would not, have been written without my wife. Absolute. AW taught me craft. My wife gave me the support needed to see it through. My book is dedicated to her. In the end, for the reasons above, nobody has done more for my writing than my wife.
JJ
Uh oh, I never thought to ask for an okay! AW is mentioned in my upcoming book's acknowledgements in a generic way. I felt it was only natural because I got the contract as an indirect result of an AW posting, and the help here was invaluable.I definitely would mention AW if Mac okayed it; same for individuals, depending on whether they'd prefer their real or screen names mentioned.