So (???) the crew inside the lightspeed ship thinks "Time feels (at lightspeed inside the ship) like it is advancing at the normal rate for us" ...
Let's take out the singularity (I mean the mathematical one, but perhaps physical, too) that "a mass moving at lightspeed" would cause, and let's say it's moving arbitrarily close to lightspeed, so time flows both on Earth and on the ship, just at greatly different rates. This is an old calculus trick, using infinitesimals instead of zero, so the reciprocal isn't quite infinite.
Even if you had infinite energy, you couldn't get these people in the ship up TO the speed of light in a finite time, because it would take infinite acceleration to do that in a finite amount of time, and you're limited to acceleration of two or three gee's, else the people in the ship get squished flat and die. Not how I want to travel. So let them accellerate for a few years at a little over a gee, and they'll be going at maybe 90 percent or 99 percent of lightspeed.
From Google:
the speed of light = 186 282.397 miles per second
From the (alleged) bumper sticker:
186,202.397 MPH: Not just a good idea, it's the law!
I'm sticking to this point, because your example of a mass (the ship and people in it) going AT THE SPEED OF LIGHT, well, how can I say this, it does not make sense. It's like dividing by zero. There's the high school algebra trick that ends up with 1 = 2, and it all uses "legal" operations, except that early on it sets A=B and then divides by (A-B), hiding (to the uncritical eye) the division by zero.
Cause-and-effect remains the same: they flip a coin, one second later it hits the floor, same as on Earth.
Yes.
But to an outside observer on Earth (if they could see what occurs inside the starship, which I know they cannot) ... to them, Time seems to have stopped when the starship hit lightspeed? So ... do they see the crew as FROZEN in Time, where the coin is frozen in mid-air, never falling? Where there can be NO cause-and-effect because there is never the second moment in which anything can result?
The crew is alive and thinking and watching the coin fall, in the exact same moment that the earth observer sees them as "frozen in Time" unable to process the next thought?
In my modified scenario, someone on Earth may live a whole lifetime as the coin on the ship flips over once. There's still cause and effect. Time goes forward in both places.
Is it logical to speak of "the same moment of Time" ... even if for one observer it lasts a moment, and for another it lasts an eternity?
These other questions depend on the ship going AT THE SPEED OF LIGHT which it won't do.
There ARE interesting questions about "a moment in time" on the ship vs. that on the Earth, mainly because they would be a significant distance from each other, and somoene in one place could not possibly know about something happening in the other "at the same instant" as it happens, due to the delay in the time it takes light to travel from one to the other. But this has nothing to do with time dilation due to acceleration. Here' a "light cone" diagram that demonstrates what I'm saying (it's a short article that mentions a lot of high-fallutin' stuff I'm not familiar with, but at least it's what I'm thinking of):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light_cone
Is it "the same moment" but only with different relativistic DURATION?
It "feels" like the same moment and duration to both observers, right?
Is there NOTHING in the Universe we can call "simultaneous" regardless of acceleration of the observer?
Is even the FIRST MOMENT OF TIME, in the Universe, not the first moment of Time EVERYWHERE (where ever Everywhere was, however compact or inflated "there" was?)
???
The Big Bang is yet another deal, and the speculation I've read of was that time and a lot of other things were bit nebulous back then. But since then time (and most of the laws of physics) has settled down pretty well, and we can measure it real good now. For an example, check out how a GPS receiver tells your position by receiving the signals from GPS satellites.