There's an escalating situation in my son's classroom and I fear it threatens to polarize the community. I've spoken previously (for anyone who remembers) about a boy in my son's sixth grade class, CM, who has Asperger's. When he gets frustrated he has violent outbursts. So far this year, he's had two. The latest outburst was the last straw for a lot of parents because not only did he attack the students, throwing chairs and screaming, he bit the teacher, in front of all the kids.
The worst thing for me is that my son, a bystander, has been fingered and punished for CM's behaviour. Twice. I met with the teacher and principal last week and both said my son has a good heart and did nothing wrong in either incident, yet he's had to spend entire periods in the office doing "reflection" and has been removed from the lunch room, having to eat alone, for the past week (along with four other children who may or may not have been involved with provoking CM).
To my mind, CM is not well served by being in this class. He's obviously not happy and is a disruption to the rest of the students. Another parent is gathering names from concerned parents and is prepared to launch a campaign to remove CM from the classroom. I have agreed to go on the list.
As far as I'm concerned, the threats to my son's safety and academic achievement need to be removed. If that means removing the child, then so be it. I like the family and have known them since my son was in kindergarten but Mama Bear has her protect her baby. Right? What am I to do?
The worst thing for me is that my son, a bystander, has been fingered and punished for CM's behaviour. Twice. I met with the teacher and principal last week and both said my son has a good heart and did nothing wrong in either incident, yet he's had to spend entire periods in the office doing "reflection" and has been removed from the lunch room, having to eat alone, for the past week (along with four other children who may or may not have been involved with provoking CM).
To my mind, CM is not well served by being in this class. He's obviously not happy and is a disruption to the rest of the students. Another parent is gathering names from concerned parents and is prepared to launch a campaign to remove CM from the classroom. I have agreed to go on the list.
As far as I'm concerned, the threats to my son's safety and academic achievement need to be removed. If that means removing the child, then so be it. I like the family and have known them since my son was in kindergarten but Mama Bear has her protect her baby. Right? What am I to do?