I don't know what to say other than that I need help getting through the next four days. I have never spent the night away from my daughter except once when she was stuck in a snowstorm at her grandparents' house (and I couldn't sleep all night hoping she'd come home). Now a judge has ordered (temporary custody) that her father will get her every Monday through Thursday. I'm floored. The system is shattered.
By now I'm sure he or someone in his family will be tracking my every word online, so that's all I'll say about it.
But know this: that little girl is my entire life, and I will find a way. I'm going to protect her, and make things right, whatever it takes.
I have family around, and they plan to keep me busy, but I feel so broken. I kissed her head tonight knowing I won't be there to kiss that head for the next three nights, and the thought of it kills me. When she wakes up in the middle of the night, I won't be there. When she makes up a new song, I won't hear it. When she calls out for "Mommy, Mommy, Mommy," she won't know why I've disappeared. She won't know that it's not my choice. Every day, I tell her, "Whenever you need me, I will always be here," and now that's a lie. If she needs me, I won't even know.
I've been through a hell of a lot in life... I think this is the worst yet.
By now I'm sure he or someone in his family will be tracking my every word online, so that's all I'll say about it.
But know this: that little girl is my entire life, and I will find a way. I'm going to protect her, and make things right, whatever it takes.
I have family around, and they plan to keep me busy, but I feel so broken. I kissed her head tonight knowing I won't be there to kiss that head for the next three nights, and the thought of it kills me. When she wakes up in the middle of the night, I won't be there. When she makes up a new song, I won't hear it. When she calls out for "Mommy, Mommy, Mommy," she won't know why I've disappeared. She won't know that it's not my choice. Every day, I tell her, "Whenever you need me, I will always be here," and now that's a lie. If she needs me, I won't even know.
I've been through a hell of a lot in life... I think this is the worst yet.