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MonaLeigh
08-11-2008, 12:36 AM
I'm looking for a few quotes for a query letter and possibly an article if it's accepted.

For the ladies:
1. If you're not in the mood, and he is, what do you do?
2. Any tips on getting your guy in the mood when he's not?

For the men:
1. Any tips on getting your girl into the mood when she's not?
2. If you're busy and not into it, what would make you change your mind?

Thanks!

If these are too graphic you can email or pm me. :)

Maryn
08-11-2008, 12:42 AM
lisamarie, in addition to PMs, this is the sort of thing you might be able to discuss openly on the Writing Erotica board, where anybody who enters can expect some adult content (but not graphic adult content).

Maryn, returning us to our thread

kristie911
08-11-2008, 07:09 AM
A guy not in the mood? I've never seen one! :)

MonaLeigh
08-11-2008, 07:18 AM
A guy not in the mood? I've never seen one! :)
Yeah, I haven't either, but I figured there must be some out there somewhere:)

MonaLeigh
08-11-2008, 09:12 PM
Thanks for all the PM responses!!

rtilryarms
08-12-2008, 06:18 PM
I chuck her in a tub of ice to warm her up a bit.


Married 24 years.

Tornadoboy
08-14-2008, 02:42 PM
I'll qoute Billy Crystal:

"Women need a reason, guys just need a place"

Phoebe H
08-14-2008, 02:48 PM
A guy not in the mood? I've never seen one! :)

I have a friend who runs workshops for couples with mismatched libidos. You would be surprised at how common it is.

Tink
08-14-2008, 06:29 PM
I'm looking for a few quotes for a query letter and possibly an article if it's accepted.

For the ladies:
1. If you're not in the mood, and he is, what do you do? Put on some soft music and then do alittle luvin, touchin' and squeezin'...it has never failed in the past.
2. Any tips on getting your guy in the mood when he's not? To be persistant with my answer to #1.

For the men:
1. Any tips on getting your girl into the mood when she's not? I am not a guy but I will answer this from a girls POV (well, my POV)...if he would go slow with casual touches, sincere eye contact and gentle kisses...


Thanks!

If these are too graphic you can email or pm me. :) :)

MelodyO
08-14-2008, 08:02 PM
For the ladies:
1. If you're not in the mood, and he is, what do you do?
2. Any tips on getting your guy in the mood when he's not?


1. I stare at the ceiling and think of the queen OR I demand foreplay until he eventually falls asleep.

2. I call 911, because he must be dead. That's the only way I can figure out he wouldn't be in the mood. :D

jennifer75
08-14-2008, 08:07 PM
For the ladies:
1. If you're not in the mood, and he is, what do you do?

I have to do something? But I'm not in the mood. ;)

Porn always works. It's like an eclypse - when you glance at it, you can't turn away for some strange reason. Next thing you know, well, you know.

2. Any tips on getting your guy in the mood when he's not?

Get started without him. What guy isn't gonna want to join in that fun?

jennifer75
08-14-2008, 08:21 PM
Yeah, I haven't either, but I figured there must be some out there somewhere:)


Isn't it funny how women expect to be allowed to not be in the mood... but the second their man isn't in the mood - the world stops turning? Because, of course, it means somthing is wrong with us.

bylinebree
08-16-2008, 03:30 PM
What a hilarious discussion!

Fun Fact #1 - I have a higher libido that HE does. Bet you don't hear that one often! And he's a little hyper and distracted sometimes, so I just tease him with kisses and caresses, to hint that things might progress should he finally sit still long enough. Given "the place" as Billy Crystal says, it usually does.

Fun Fact #2 - If he really doesn't respond, it's usually because he's overly tired. But after a brief nap...like in the middle of the night...he snaps to attention with a little special attention. (oops - did that belong on this board or the other?)

Fun Fact #3 - A Mood Setting for both is watching a romantic movie...or one where anyone kisses...or touches. A blanket to cuddle under, stroking of the thigh and snuggling usually leads to interrupting said movie. Ahem.

Sounds like lisamarie got plenty of answers already, but it's a fun topic!

bylinebree
08-16-2008, 03:32 PM
Porn always works. It's like an eclypse - when you glance at it, you can't turn away for some strange reason. Next thing you know, well, you know.



This is one of the funniest analogies I've ever seen.
Do remember that staring at an eclipse can cause blindness, though...

Ashleigh-Bridie
08-17-2008, 01:18 PM
Nothing says 'take me now' more than saying take me now!

Ol' Fashioned Girl
08-18-2008, 02:44 AM
From OFG:

1. If you're not in the mood, and he is, what do you do?

I either let him get me in the mood or I tell him why I'm not and we make a 'rain date'.

2. Any tips on getting your guy in the mood when he's not?

Show up naked. Bring beer.



From Ol' Fashioned Boy:

1. Any tips on getting your girl into the mood when she's not?

Romance, boys. Think 'Romance'. I've got 30 years experience here. Listen to me when I'm talkin' to ya.

2. If you're busy and not into it, what would make you change your mind?

Show up naked. Bring beer.