Am I a hypocrit? (Please; bear with me here)
As some of you may have read in my thread "F it all"; my brother has Leukemia.
At first he, and his doctors, seemed quite convinced that he would pull through 'in a jiffy'.
Well, turns out he won't. He is now diagnosed with stage three cancer. Very unsuspected to everyone, including my poor brother. And that's the long story put very short.
I now find myself in a position where I ask anyone I know who is a believer to pray for my brother. I have searched myself - everything within myself- and I find nothing there to pray to; or try and bribe (as in 'Fix this, God, and I will not...'.)
I'm at a loss here! I realize that a lot of people - probably the majority of the human race - find comfort in religion at a moment like this.
Thing is - I don't have that. I don't have belief. I have nowhere to search for comfort. All I have is accepting the fact that these things happen; and right now it is happening to my brother -My brother that I love unconditionally!!!!!!!
I am sad. To say the least I am concerned. To be honest - if I could trade places with my brother I would! I've had a good life! I am prepared. He has a daughter, a grand-child, a life worth living. As a matter of fact - so do I. It's just that I hate seeing people I love in pain...
Now I am wondering;
Am I a hypocrit for asking all the people I know who are believers to pray for my brother? Does this show weakness in my atheism? Am I a hypocrite or do I try and buy that (oh too cheap) insurance?
If I had any kind of conviction at all, I ensure you that I would pray myself. However, there is nothing - nothing - that leads me to do such a thing... And therefore I ask you all this question.
As some of you may have read in my thread "F it all"; my brother has Leukemia.
At first he, and his doctors, seemed quite convinced that he would pull through 'in a jiffy'.
Well, turns out he won't. He is now diagnosed with stage three cancer. Very unsuspected to everyone, including my poor brother. And that's the long story put very short.
I now find myself in a position where I ask anyone I know who is a believer to pray for my brother. I have searched myself - everything within myself- and I find nothing there to pray to; or try and bribe (as in 'Fix this, God, and I will not...'.)
I'm at a loss here! I realize that a lot of people - probably the majority of the human race - find comfort in religion at a moment like this.
Thing is - I don't have that. I don't have belief. I have nowhere to search for comfort. All I have is accepting the fact that these things happen; and right now it is happening to my brother -My brother that I love unconditionally!!!!!!!
I am sad. To say the least I am concerned. To be honest - if I could trade places with my brother I would! I've had a good life! I am prepared. He has a daughter, a grand-child, a life worth living. As a matter of fact - so do I. It's just that I hate seeing people I love in pain...
Now I am wondering;
Am I a hypocrit for asking all the people I know who are believers to pray for my brother? Does this show weakness in my atheism? Am I a hypocrite or do I try and buy that (oh too cheap) insurance?
If I had any kind of conviction at all, I ensure you that I would pray myself. However, there is nothing - nothing - that leads me to do such a thing... And therefore I ask you all this question.