It is clear that this time in my life is going to be hard. It's not just going to be hard for a week or two, but quite possibly a year or two. When I say everything is crashing down, I mean EVERthing in my life is crashing.
I'm going through something like this. It's been hard for a long time, now. It's "harder" for about 1 1/2 years, and it's
really hard right now. But maybe I'm reacting differently to it, or I have different words.
Writing has become increasingly difficult, but it's only become
really difficult now, when depression is very noticable. While I was still feeling the pain, writing was viable. Right now? It's not so much writing through the pain, as it is writing through the... jelly.
Everything's hard. I'm moving in slow motion. I'm noticing that I'll be dropping things for what appears to be ages, but I can't seem to interfere in time. Life in the bubble.
Now, I've always been a slow writer; since I'm generally slower this means I'm writing slower as well. Which means that I need more time to write. Which means that I need more computer access, and that's just not viable. I'm trying to go back to pen/paper, but that's hard for a different reason: I'm very much a creature of habit. I used to write pen/paper all the time, but now I have to make an effort to get into it. And trying to change your habits isn't exactly easy when many other things come unhinged... It may seem trivial, but you don't exactly want
more change.
But that's not the biggest problem. Why am I slow writer? That's mostly because I mull over sentences. I go online to research single word choices. I delete, reorganise sentence. There's no such thing as a writing flow for me. My mistakes do include typos, but they don't include - say - the rushed sentences (forgetting conjunctions, punctuation etc.) that I see with others. Instead, I get copy/paste errors. Fragments of previous sentences I fail to delete. Things like that.
But this kind of writing approach requires "judgement". And here's the
real problem. During my depression I have this instinctive idea that "I suck". Generally. Everything about me sucks. It's hard to fight. But a side-effect is that when formulating a sentence I lose the ability to decide which sentence version I like better. And - for my writing style - that's a desaster. I
can write. I have to spin into objective mode, a bit like roleplaying a non-depressed self. Working from memory. But that's extremely exhausting, and when I'm done I won't feel any sort of satisfaction. I then have to resist the temptation to delete what I've just written (deleting bad stuff is a habit of mine; I don't like clutter). I need something there for later editing.
I don't think I can get a handle on that problem without getting a handle on the depression itself. I also have to stop beating myself up over not writing. That's, in a way, being depressed about being depressed - unhelpful.
I'm nearing the climax of my first novel. Talk about bad timing, huh? I'll get done what I'll get done, I suppose, and continue to try to revert to pen-paper mode.
Not much else to do, writingwise, I think.