I ran across this a long, long time ago and it touched me so much (as I had a father who saved pennies and gave them to me) that I have kept it. I tried to find a link to it on the 'net, but there was none (at least not through Google) and I think the message is important.
PENNIES
by Jan Philpot
[Copyright 2000 JanPhilpot. This first appeared in the
author's "Sunday Afternoon Rocking" series.)
In careful columns on a farm log, she recorded the egg money.
For one accustomed to today's figures, the pitifully small sums
seem astounding. They are counted not in dollars but in pennies.
Her place in life, and I doubt she really would have wanted it
otherwise, was to carve out a sanctuary for a family on a farm
deep in the hills of Tennessee. Egg money was her ticket to
those dreams every mother clasps tight in her heart and wants to
make possible for her children. Perhaps the dreams were small
ones by today's standards, but in that time huge boulders stood
in the path of them, and penny at a time, with every sale of
eggs, she came one step closer to doing the special things she
wanted to do for her children. Egg money bought a strand of
pearls for each of her two eldest daughters on their sixteenth
birthdays. Egg money provided a class ring and a school sweater
for her only son. Time and again, my aunts have shown me some
small thing that would have been considered a luxury as they
grew up, and provided the simple explanation, "Mama bought it
with her egg money."
Pennies. When I was a child, Christmas might not have meant the
bountiful season of giving it does now, but we were far from
the days when Mama counted the pennies of the egg money. Pa, a
true family patriarch, did not let us forget those days had
been, nor that, as far as he was concerned, they were still in
existence. Every Christmas, as sure as the orange cake and the
coconut cake, one thing could be counted upon. Invariably
beneath the tree was one white tissue-wrapped gift for myself
and my only cousin. Tied with curling ribbon, it looked
suspiciously like the jar it was, and picking it up one
discovered it was quite heavy for its size. My cousin and I
would smile and roll knowing eyes. This was the annual gift from
Pa, and we would giggle and say, "Wonder what this is?"
Pennies. Five hundred pennies had been dropped into a jar for
each of us throughout the year. Each year, as Pa went about his
daily routine, receiving change for a hair cut, a jar of coffee,
he dropped in the pennies. It was his only gift to us, and yet
it was probably the most meaningful Christmas gift I have ever
received. I have forgotten most of the things unwrapped through
the years, but I never forgot the pennies, and long after the
pennies were no longer under the tree I dwelt on the meaning of
them. I have often thought how special it was that our
grandfather marked his thoughts of us throughout the year in
pennies, and that each of us could be assured that at least five
hundred times we had been in his mind. I have also, as I have
grown older, realized his gift was a reflection of his times,
and that he had shown us a glimpse of a world we would be wise
to take note of. One Christmas the annual tissue-wrapped jar of
pennies was no longer there.
Pennies. I grew older and at my father's death, much belonging
to my family and grandfather passed into my hands. Those items
were of little material value. The value lay in the window that
suddenly became much clearer, and I looked into a past and
learned a lesson no less important today than it was at the turn
of the 20th century when my grandfather grew into manhood. Time
and again in tattered leather purses, tucked away in a trunk, in
a box, between the pages of a farm journal, I found tiny
packages wrapped carefully in a scrap of paper. Peeling the
crumbling paper I would find a penny, and on the paper carefully
recorded I would find the date and place the penny had been
found. Pennies, I realized, were a theme of my family's life. If
thousands of dollars were beyond comprehension, hundreds a
source of wonder, a dollar to be the wage of a man for two days
of hard work on a farm -- pennies were what built dollars. I can
remember scoffing at pennies as a child, and seeing the lowered
eyebrows of my parents who chastised, "A hundred of them make a
dollar." Pennies.
Throughout the week I see pennies. They seem so unimportant to
so many people. I hear them in stores, "Just keep the pennies.
Don't want to mess with them." I see a penny lying on a sidewalk
and people passing by without noticing. I point one out to a
friend I am walking with and she smiles but keeps walking. I
remember a jar of pennies and go back to pick it up. I wonder
what many children of today would think if given a jar of five
hundred pennies for Christmas. And I wonder if, given such a
strange gift it might be one they would remember, think about
again and again. I wonder if it would cause them to consider the
value of the penny, a hundred of which make a dollar. And I
wonder if one day they would think how special it was that
someone dear marked thoughts of them throughout the year in
pennies, and that each could be assured that at least five
hundred times they had been on someone's mind.
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One of my dearest friends lost her 24 year old son to diabetes three years ago. Every time she sees a penny lying on the ground, she says it's from Eric, leaving her a message... just saying 'Hi, Mom!'
And then there are these charities:
Pennies for Patients
Youngster Collects a Million Pennies for School
Pennies for Peace
Yeah... pennies are a pain. They cost more to make than they're worth. But do I think they're important?
Yeah. I do.