That's just delaying the inevitable. They'll be asking her over again now and you'll have to go through all this again.
Well, their daughter and my daughter aren't even that close. They used to play sports together, and the moms were coaches.
So we see each other at sporting events, and always speak. Today was our daughters 5th grade graduation ceremony and one of them asked me, to my face, if my daughter could spend the night next week for a birthday sleepover. I automatically said "yes." Then I thought about it, and thought about it.............for hours.
It dawned on me where they live and even though I do trust the women, they can't watch the girls every second.
I just think my daughters safety could be in jeopardy. Or she may be exposed to things I don't want her see yet, because we keep her pretty sheltered here.
And finally, I don't think my daughter would even be able to sleep there. She's worried enough here with me at night, because her dad works until midnight.
I think it would be torture for her, and torture for me and her dad. Not worth it.