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...where I should expect every girl I meet to have at least one kid. Or so I was told by my homegirl yesterday, after I found out that the girl I met on Wednesday night has kids.
Between the girl from Wednesday night, the old flame who expressed interest again on Saturday night, and the girl I'm meeting up with tonight (Having a pretty decent week & change here), that's 3 that have a child or two.
Not that I'm averse to kids (ol' girl last night actually asked me "Are you anti-kid?" Hilarious.) but it has me wondering if my friend was right & I just need to sort of expect this to be the case. I'm twenty-eight & tend to favor ladies my age or older...
I dunno. Is it bad to be dreading this? I don't want to be that dude, and it's just dating right now anyway, so it's nothing critical at all. Still, is it wrong if the child vs. childless status factors in to who a person pursues?
Between the girl from Wednesday night, the old flame who expressed interest again on Saturday night, and the girl I'm meeting up with tonight (Having a pretty decent week & change here), that's 3 that have a child or two.
Not that I'm averse to kids (ol' girl last night actually asked me "Are you anti-kid?" Hilarious.) but it has me wondering if my friend was right & I just need to sort of expect this to be the case. I'm twenty-eight & tend to favor ladies my age or older...
I dunno. Is it bad to be dreading this? I don't want to be that dude, and it's just dating right now anyway, so it's nothing critical at all. Still, is it wrong if the child vs. childless status factors in to who a person pursues?