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Your Hair is Short. Do You Have Cancer?
Are you a woman?
Do you work in television? Do you wear your hair short? Does that mean you have cancer? Wait...WHAT?? Read on...Quote:
I guess that probably means she's a lesbian as well, huh? And how the hell can you fire someone for breaking a"rule" you were never knew existed? |
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but appreciated anyway...
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Holy crap. How horrible for her!
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slow and steady
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The article's been updated. The policy concerns responding to Facebook comments. Nothing to do with her race, sex, or hair. Apparently a white male reporter was let go for the same reason.
It's aggravating that Facebook commenters would leave such ignorant comments, but I think the station employees are expected to do the writer thing and ignore 'reviews'. |
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Heckuva good sport
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Then the policy should be written down someplace where employees can access it, and possibly posted somewhere. She says she missed the meeting it was mentioned at. Others may have missed the meeting, or be new hires, etc.
Even if she missed the meeting, if this policy really was a new policy, people would have discussed/talked/complained about it. She would have heard something. Sure, inform her about the policy, tell her off for responding, whatever, but firing someone for a policy that they didn't know about? Management could make anything up, tell each other it's a new 'policy' and start firing. |
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From the update:
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So the station's policy is its fine with them if their reporter is singled out for ignorant remarks because she doesn't conform to some dope's standard of beauty who doesn't get it a close-cropped Afro is not an indicator of cancer, but if she explains why she chooses to wear her hair in such a unconventional way, she's out of line.
I have a problem with this. Others do too. Quote:
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That's really my dog :)
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They mention a "redacted copy of an internal staff memo dated August 30 that outlines the station’s social media policy". Presumably, that's an email? I don't know, but if they don't have unalterable proof from before her complaint came out, they may be pretty screwed, imho. OTOH, if they fired another person for non-racial social media comments, that could be proof that it's not a civil rights issue, anyway. Whether it's legal probably depends on the state, etc. eta: oooh, I just read nighttimer's post. If she's subjected to racial harassment and can't do anything to alleviate that according to company policy, that could be a civil rights situation. I changed my mind
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Except that it's not as though this is a customer insulting her to her face. The Facebook page is probably, by her bosses, considered a space that only the PR guys should pay attention to.
The problem with that is that the Facebook page is maintained by her employers. Thus moderation of comments is their responsibility. No moderation makes it seems as though the station condones whatever is said. ...I think this is more a problem of the policy makers not fully understanding the internet as a platform and there still being an grey area when it comes to what's proper behavior dealing with people over the internet. Like the Gawker article says, the company seems to not quite know how to handle the mostly-uncensored public nature of Facebook. Yes, race was the issue involved in this case. But it seems as though it could just as easily be any other sort of discrimination. |
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A woman said to write like a man.
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I don't believe race per se was at issue here as far as the man who made the Facebook comment. I believe it was ignornace of race and ignorance over different types of hair. It was more an example of sexism (women are supposed to have long full fluffy hair). The man was bothered by seing her hair like that. It rubbed him the wrong way. But I don't think it was "I can't stand seeing black people wear their hair funny." Instead it was "I don't like it when women have short hair, it just looks wrong, but okay, so maybe the poor girl's got cancer."
It became an issue about race only when it became necessary to explain to the man that her hair is African not European.
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Dog is good, all the time.
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I wish I could wear my hair short and look that good. She is absolutely gorgeous.
And I also loved her response. There was nothing snippy or mean about it, imo. It was articulate, thoughtful, educational, and inspiring. She should have gotten a raise. |
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The Future is Bright
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And I agree with PD that this was probably just an ignorant comment by an old man who didn't know any better. The comment didn't really sound nasty. Not that that makes it better or wouldn't still hurt, however. I have an African American friend who wears a wig. I had no idea it was a wig. It's long and wavy and looks pretty darn natural to me. That's ME being ignorant. I don't know. I don't think about it. I had no idea until she told me. She said she wears the wig b/c even though in her heart she's a natural hippie, and on the weekends goes wig-free with her short hair, she's found that wigs make other people feel more comfortable than if she went all natural. She showed me a picture of herself without the wig, and I think she's beautiful and so strong and inspiring when she doesn't wear it. I think it's sad that she does just for the comfort of other people.
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A woman said to write like a man.
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I totally agree. Meanwhile the dudes in the suits just don't know what to do with their station's own Facebook page.
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I'm gonna hold out for Paul Harvey on this one.
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Dog is good, all the time.
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![]() And from now on, I'm going to use "Meanwhile, the dudes in suits..." instead of "Meanwhile, back at the ranch...."
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delicate #!&@*#! flower
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It will be interesting to see how this firing plays out. It sounds like there's more going on than just this one incident.
But the guy who made the comment that kicked this off on Facebook is a dimwit on multiple levels. It is not her obligation to turn him on. Her job is to relate the news. Some people seem to forget that every person in front of a camera lens isn't there to give you a tingle in the nethers. And I promise, you'll get over it if you're not flooded with lust every time the picture on the screen switches to a different person. In my opinion, she's gorgeous, but that is well beside the point. |
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Clever title pending.
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I remember her from watching KXAN here in Austin. My wife and I have just stopped watching that station because they keep getting rid of anyone with actual personality and replacing them with folks who appear to be ... well, enough said.
The tipping point was when the weather guy, during one of those annoying banter moments, turned to the female anchor and said something like, "What is it with women, always late for everything?" My wife and I were stunned, and when she emailed to complain got zero response on that point. Perhaps it's okay for white men to offend viewers, but not black women? |
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I'ma firin' mah lazer.
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Yep, still a good ol' boys' club. |
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Women are all too often objectified based on nothing more than their appearance (remember the hate directed at Candy Crowley?). If Rhonda Lee had a full-blown Jackson Five Afro that would be scandalous to some viewers. If Rhonda Lee were rocking dreadlocks there would be those up in arms. She looks professional and poised to me and she should not have to explain her choice of hairstyle to the uninitiated.
The fact that she did in a firm, but patient way and the viewer acknowledged her explanation and apologized, should have been the end of it. The television station made an issue of this, not Lee. The smart move would be to admit their policy was unclear and arbitrary and to rehire her.
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I hope she sues. I hope she sues, the station, the specific employees involved, and the owner. Her response was perfect.
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Agreed, but she's also classy.
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Hwee kaptoored eet for kayhosssssss
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Frankly, I don't give a goddamn what my news reporter looks like. You know what I do care about?
If they're actually reporting the news. The facebook commenter was a troll and a dick.
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Perhaps I am missing something but I saw the commenter as saying s/he though women looked better with long hair. They did not specify if it should hang flat or grow up and out. It is a sexist beauty norm but it is necessarily about natural hair type?
That said, firing some one for a one off Facebook comment strikes me as a serious over-reaction in any situation. Let alone this one.
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delicate #!&@*#! flower
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Definitely. I thought her response was even-handed and well said. Whatever their policy, the net's too wide to end in termination for something like this.
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That's really my dog :)
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That's easily understood if that hair texture is common to a person, and not thought about much by those who don't know many AA (or other) folks with that texture. I have a guess about an Irish parallel, lol. You see a lot of long, curly hair there. I wear mine that way, too, and my hair is like what you see so much there. It's only because it's the easiest way to wear it and have it look good with my hair texture and wetness (rain there, humidity here). Lots of folks here think it must be harder to have long hair, but they just aren't familiar with that kind of hair or they aren't familiar with the weather we get here in the South. But when it runs so deeply among racial lines, it becomes more than just not understanding, imho. Employers need to understand what is considered professional in at least the main US races. Very short natural hair is very professional with her hair type. We don't need one race having to wear wigs to keep/get a job. Or spend an incredible amount of time on their hair. There's no sense in requiring that. eta: I'm giving the commenter the benefit of the doubt that the post was supposed to be about professionalism and not just his/her personal tastes
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I'm not a bitch! I'm English!
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I think natural hair looks better on most black women. But that's just my opinion.
I have a colleague at work who has started wearing her hair natural, mainly for economic reasons. I walked into her office one day, stopped dead and said 'you look just like Marsha Hunt!' Then wondered if she'd know who that is as she's a lot younger than me.... luckily she did! But for me it may go back to when I was a kid, before the chemical straighteners and relaxers and what not. I grew up around black women that wore their hair natural. They would twist it and grip it into fantastic shapes. Or cut it into an afro. So when all the stuff came out in the Eighties, it didn't look right to me to see black women with their hair down their back. And still doesn't. But that's just me.
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