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#251 |
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I am innocent of all charges.
AW Moderator
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Tennessee
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Yes.
Sadly missed.
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Wielder of the Witchblade
Join Date: May 2009
Location: In the red zone
Posts: 2,627
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I haven't been here on a regular basis for quite some time but I do have fond memories of CactusWendy from my early days. She was one of the sweetest and most welcoming members and her kindness will not be forgotten.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Larissa. May your mother find her "Summerland" and be at peace. I wish you and your family well during this difficult time.
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#253 |
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DANG!
Join Date: May 2009
Location: 7th Heaven
Posts: 13,503
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I'm sure Wendy is standing next to St. Peter now...
...she's smiling and handing out bags of Popcorn to the Newbies. ![]() See ya later, sweet tater.
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Seen 'em come, seen 'em go
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Land o' Goshen, and packed with nougaty goodness
Posts: 3,368
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Wendy was always there with a kind word, a welcoming hand, and a sweet presence.
Go with God, dear lady. May you arrive on a better shore.
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THE REASONS - Now Available!
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 25,239
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So sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. She was always so sweet and kind to me. What a lovely person she was...a true testament to kindness. I will miss her friendly presence around AW. )-:
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Of the big heart
Join Date: Feb 2005
Posts: 874
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Such sad news. I'll miss you, Wendy. Yours was a rare, kind spirit.
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Girl Detective
AW Moderator
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: In cahoots with the other boo-birds
Posts: 7,267
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I've been offline for a bit and have just now seen this.
I wish I hadn't. Larissa, please accept my sympathies for you and your family, and know that we all loved Wendy, and she will be sorely missed. There were many occasions where I'd scroll through a thread and see her name and avatar and stop, because I knew that if Wendy was saying it, it was worth reading. She mattered to me. She mattered to all of us. We are better people for having known her, even just online.
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Salt water is the cure
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: on the water
Posts: 1,697
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Prayers for your family.
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You don't have coffee? Go away.
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Smalltown, USA
Posts: 697
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Whenever I took the time to greet the newcomers (hardly ever), it would always be nice to see Wendy's comments. She wasn't someone I talked to regularly on AW, but she was someone I'd see from time to time, and was always a friendly face.
You're in my prayers, Wendy. I hope your final hours are peaceful.
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Teh doommobile, drivin' rite by you
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Going shopping with Soccer Mom and Bubastes for fudz. Not pie. I do not share pie. EVER.
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I've been thinking about Wendy a lot today, because I saw something in her that I can't identify in many other people and most certainly not in myself. I don't think I'll ever stand around with welcoming bags of popcorn, but I know that every time I see a newbie thread, I will think of Wendy and what she was to every single person within this writers' community.
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Represent.
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Davis, CA
Posts: 5,431
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I'm very sorry to hear of your mother's passing, Larissa. Wendy was a wonderful member of AW, and we're going to miss her very much.
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Tigress Tyrant
Horror Hounds Dominatrix
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: I'm not Kirk, Spock, Luke, Flash or Arthur frelling Dent. I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas.
Posts: 8,763
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My prayers to Wendy's family, I'm sorry for your loss.
She touched the minds and hearts of many people. Love you Wendy and as Greg said, "one of us." dl |
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thread stalker
AW Moderator
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Post #37264
Posts: 27,075
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even with nuances of the internet a good heart has the ability to reveal itself.
rip, wendy. |
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It's smaller on the outside!
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Travelling around in my TARDIS.
Posts: 11,623
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I'm sorry for your loss, Larissa. I know what you're going through. I wish I'd taken the time to get to know Cactus Wendy better. But I do know she greeted me when I joined several years ago. I'm sure she's meeting and greeting newbies in heaven now. With a bag of popcorn for each new arrival.
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fluently sarcastic.
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: wherever the Jose is.
Posts: 770
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Vaya con dios, Wendy. We miss you. |
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Spoiler Alert - Butler.
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Shiny and New Hampshire
Posts: 1,372
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So sad to hear this news. Wendy was a bright light here at AW.
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Weaver of Dark Delusions
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Where madness sleeps, and dreams
Posts: 3,503
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Aw, while I didn't really know CactusWendy, like so many I was welcomed to AW by her and have enjoyed reading her posts here over the years.
I'm sure she has received as warm a welcome on the other side as she gave so many of us.
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Boldly going nowhere in particular.
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: California
Posts: 1,597
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Oh no...
I didn't know Wendy well, but I have seen her posts, and she seemed like a very lovely person.Very sad to hear this. My thoughts are with her and her family.
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Whose Idea Was This?
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: California
Posts: 971
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So sorry to hear this. Hugs and best wishes to her family.
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Benefactor Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 3,300
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Pride Sheep
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Seattle area.
Posts: 5,338
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I didn't know Wendy as well as some of the other AWers knew her, but I always liked her and saw her posts all over the place for the past 6-7 years I've been on AW. She was one of those posters you always remembered, not for anything specific, but just because she was always there. It's very hard for me to explain, but she had a very special kind of presence. She was always quick to offer warm thoughts and kind words (and virtual popcorn) whenever anyone needed them. Whenever I was going through a rough patch and needed to vent, she was always there. I didn't know her very well personally, but it was obvious she had a huge heart and cared a lot about her fellow community members. I'll definitely miss her presence on these boards.
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Loves interplanetary chaos.
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Roaming the galactic range.
Posts: 1,162
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Oh man. It always blew me away how she was in there greeting the steady stream of newbies, day after day, week after week, year after year.
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Tell it like it Is
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: With my cats
Posts: 7,488
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I was so sad to hear about Cactus Wendy. I will never forget out welcoming she was, and how her kindness shone through her postings. And, the popcorn.
Rest in Peace, sweet Wendy. |
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practical experience, FTW
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Somewhere in the mountains
Posts: 3,806
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My heart breaks and I add my prayers.
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It's a dorky day!
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Good'ol Southern California *quakes*
Posts: 6,728
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Losing a mom is hard and I'm so sorry. Yes, we all loved her. I had a few intimate conversations with her about our diseases. We both agreed that it wasn't fun but as long as we could have fun it was keeping us sane. And we both agreed that posting at AW had a way with keeping us connected with life. I've always said that AW is more than a writers board, it's a family, a community where love abounds.
This is especially hard for me because I have COPD too but not because of smoking though I did smoke briefly. I got asthma from second hand smoke and air pollution. I was raised the in San Gabriel Valley where the pollution settled and then everyone smoked in my house, grand parents house and my dad's house. Then I went to be a Cosmetology school and the chemicals ruined the lining of my lungs and I now have COPD. There are no adequate words to describe the suffering from COPD no matter how you get it. One could put themselves in a tight straitjacket and breath from a straw for a week if you get curious though. Rest, Wendy, and breath. See you!
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