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I kind of feel sorry for her. She's really not kidding about the Aspergers--she takes and causes offense almost at random. It's clear she really doesn't "get" what's happening.
That doesn't change the fact she's being a drama llama whose victimization goggles are welded onto her head, but it does make the behaviour more understandable. Last edited by jjdebenedictis; 04-06-2012 at 06:36 AM. Reason: Accidental Ass Burgers |
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A bit of a wallflower
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What I cannot understand is how anyone who knows this woman thought she would make a good editor or publisher. I can't even imagine trying to interact with her, especially if there's a disagreement, on a professional basis. |
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Rewriting My Destiny
Join Date: Nov 2008
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Asperger's... not Asberger's. One of my pet peeves.
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Fixed! My apologies. I kept staring at that and wondering why it looked wrong.
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There are (at least) two ways to act when one has relatives with behavioral difficulties, and I have seen both in my extended family. One is to focus on the relative's well-being, taking extra care of them and any family members affected, working with them and shielding them from harm. The other is to focus on oneself, to act out and say it is because one is so stressed out from taking care of one's relatives. To be fair, that situation is often complicated and stressful. This is why it is the time to be extra mistrustful of one's thoughts and impulses, to be extra cautious about what one is saying and doing, and to be willing to listen to one's friends and even well-meaning strangers when they say one is going too far. I'd also like to say, as one who has relations diagnosed with Asperger's, Asperger's is no excuse for rudeness.
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The cake is a lie. But still cake.
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I may be wrong here, but isn't Rebecca Hamilton an AW member - ladyinpink?
And if I'm correct about the identity here, this latest round of histrionics should come as no surprise. |
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A Guardian article on the subject: How not to handle bad reviews
(sorry for th ebad link first time around!)
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Attends The School of AW
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I think negative reviews are something all writers get. I've been very lucky to never get unpleasant reviews. I've had plenty of negative ones.
However there is a difference between negative critical reviews and a review that strays into personal. There is reviewers behaving like a bunch of mean girls in highschool over on goodreads. This is getting lost among the talk of authors hitting back at genuine negative reviews. I doubt many authors wrote books to become punching bags to be personally ridiculed. I know I didn't. |
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I'm also skeptical of authors who claim reviews have become "personal." They tend to have trouble separating their books from themselves. |
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Even when a review does cross the line, the reviewer will look bad whether the author replies or not. The only difference an author reply makes is whether the exchange also makes the author look bad. Up until the reply, sympathy for the author is guaranteed. After the reply, not so much. It's hard to reply to something like that, especially when you're upset, and come away looking good.
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(And, optionally, daydream about beheading the person.) |
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I agree. Negative reviews might matter to the author on some level, but all legitimate reviews will be about the book. If it's a personal attack, then it's not about the book--and that makes it vapor.
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For me seeing is believing when it comes to personal attacks from both reviewers and authors. |
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Northern scum. Southern belle.
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I think she'll also make a success of publishing if she can get herself under control. It's like she cannot allow herself to be wrong about anything now she has this public profile. She always had that compulsion - and it may derive from the Asperger's - but it's now threatening to devour the Tri-State area and beyond.
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Talent and social aptitude have no correlation. This is why I feel rather sorry for her. If she just had a bit more of a grasp on where her strengths and weaknesses lie, there's no reason why she couldn't lead a very successful life. |
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Edit: My blood is boiling. I just saw Ms Hamilton's comment about rape. Read it here.
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Your Genial Uncle
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Yes, but can she pick a publishable manuscript out of the slushpile?
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Northern scum. Southern belle.
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It's not her skills I've fallen out with. It's her hypocrisy and irrational behaviour.
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Your Genial Uncle
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It's time to play Spot the Fake Review!
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Which one of those reviewers do you think might advertise his/her services on Fiverr? And ... for the tiebreaker, who do you suppose the one person giving helpful/not helpful votes who broke from the common opinion on both reviews might have been?
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Feed me green grapes.
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Did you see this?
ETA: Oops! You did! I clicked the link and didn't finish reading your post before I commented. I love the added touch of calling the author named Peter "her" though!
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Your Genial Uncle
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Jane over at Dear Author had a little bit about fake reviews: This kind of fake review is harmful rather than helpful.
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