Yes, most of us are action heroes in our fantasies and frozen by fear and indecision when the deal actually goes down.
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This is so true.
I always hear people talk about how they would react if someone broke into their home. My husband and I are guilty of that. It's always a hypothetical, if...then I.... type of statement.
About 5 years ago, someone did come in our house at about 2 in the morning. We have a two story, and he was all the way upstairs before we knew what was happening. My husband has always said, "I'd have no problem shooting someone in my house."
Well, when the moment actually came, he had a gun in his hand, pointed at this person, but thankfully didn't pull the trigger. He's had a gun pointed at him before, and said he doesn't remember which was worse, pointing it at someone, or being threatened with one. He also said a million different things ran through his mind; if I shoot will it go in the neighbors house? What if I miss? What if he has a gun? Who is this person? Is he really here to hurt us?
His first instinct was to slow the situation down, and find out what was hapenning. Things are so different in real life, than in all the hypotheticals we imagine.
That being said, I still can't understand how no one reached out a hand to this man. It's a different situation than the one I just described. I can't imagine the fear he felt, or the panic as he tried to get off the tracks, and he saw his fellow human beings running away.