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http://www.sheboyganpress.com/article/20090109/SHE0101/901090467/1973/SHE0201
I found this article to be really interesting. It seems that many of the discussions about teen sex and virginity always end up in some variant of how virginity is expected of women but not men, etc. I'm not going to repeat that here.
But I'd never stopped to consider the other side of the coin. Boys getting harsher punishment than girls for the same sex crime. It's funny, isn't it? Somehow, the responsibility of initiating sex always falls on the guys, while it is usually thought that girls never initiate those acts, they just have the power to say 'no'. It's really funny how all these things are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious, we don't even notice them.
Any thoughts on this?
A 17-year-old Sheboygan girl was charged Thursday with misdemeanor sexual assault for allegedly having sex with her 14-year-old boyfriend. [...] She faces a maximum of nine months in jail, if convicted.
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On Wednesday, Alan J. Jepsen, 17, of 1416 New York Ave., was charged for allegedly having sex with a 14-year-old girl who he claimed told him she was 16. Jepsen is facing a count of felony second-degree sexual assault, which carries a maximum prison term of 25 years.
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Haasch also said the cases are different because Guthrie's boyfriend is "almost 15," with a birthday in February. Jepsen's girlfriend turns 15 in April.
I found this article to be really interesting. It seems that many of the discussions about teen sex and virginity always end up in some variant of how virginity is expected of women but not men, etc. I'm not going to repeat that here.
But I'd never stopped to consider the other side of the coin. Boys getting harsher punishment than girls for the same sex crime. It's funny, isn't it? Somehow, the responsibility of initiating sex always falls on the guys, while it is usually thought that girls never initiate those acts, they just have the power to say 'no'. It's really funny how all these things are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious, we don't even notice them.
Any thoughts on this?