My dad got a weird phone call asking for me...

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A bit of background: I've had my own place for nearly ten years, haven't lived with my parents since September 1997.

This morning my dad got a phone call on his landline asking for me, allegedly from a person working for a TV company in Manchester. This person asked for me or asked for my contact details and my dad said he never gives out other people's phone numbers without their permission.

This person (a woman) left her number and asked that my dad get me to call back.

So he did, and phoned me on my mobile to ask, "What have you been up to? I've just had someone from a TV company in Manchester asking for you."

I'm completely mystified. Anyone who needs to get in touch with me knows my email address and mobile number (I don't have a landline). I haven't entered any competitions, contacted anyone in Manchester...in fact I don't know anyone from Manchester and even if I did, I certainly wouldn't give them my dad's landline number to get back in touch with me!

The only person I can think of who would know my dad's home number but not how to get in touch with me directly is my whore of a mother.

More background: two and a half, nearly three years ago, she upped and left. Packed her bags, disappeared, emptied the marital bank account, left my dad with a huge pile of bills, thank you and goodnight.

I've since had my landline DC'd (through choice - never used it) and have changed my mobile number. She doesn't know my email address (in fact doesn't know I'm back online now) or any other way to get in touch - besides my snail mail address. But when she sent me a birthday card one year I ripped it up and mailed it back to her, saying I didn't have a mother any more and if she contacted me again I'd go to the police to make her leave me alone.

A friend made a joke this afternoon, "Maybe she wants a family reunion on the Jeremy Kyle show." I said not to even joke about it as there are some TV shows that are made in Manchester, daytime TV talk shows being among the type made there.

Strange though. Someone goes through my dad to get to me, asks for my number and claims to be from a TV company working out of Manchester. And the only person who knows my dad's number but not mine is Bitchtits herself, who cleared out years back.

I'm curious to know what's going on. Will keep you updated.
 
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Wouldn't your dad know your mothers voice or are you suggesting she has a cohort?
 
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Wouldn't your dad know your mothers voice or are you suggesting she has a cohort?

No, this was someone calling from a TV company. I wonder if she got in touch with someone there and this was a researcher calling from one of those trashy talk shows...

She MIGHT be behind it because as I said, she's the only person I can think of who would know my dad's landline number, but not my own personal contact details.
 
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The callback number was 0161-something, which my dad tells me is Manchester.

I'm honestly racking my brains trying to figure out who would have my dad's number. A couple of friends do but they also have my mobile, so you'd think they'd call me, or have someone else call me, directly.

Anyway I'm going up to my dad's this evening to puzzle it over. Will keep you all posted!
 

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Spooky. You can put a twist on this and write a book.
 

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It could also be a case of identity theft? I don't know, but I agree, this is an unusual story.


My grandmother once got a letter from Playboy magazine, asking her if she wanted to renew her subscription. It was the damnedest thing. She'd never (nor had gramps, as far as anyone knew) had a subscription, she didn't even know what it was. We laughed for a month over that.
 

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Why isn't returning the call an option? Just use a pay phone.
 

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Why not ask? I suspect there is a simple explanation.
 

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I'm sorry to hear your mum left like that. It must have felt terrible. People make mistakes that cost them dearly. Do you have a bond with your mother that needs her to come clean and be honest with you?

Just wondering.
 
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Put it this way, she abused me 'til I was about 15, 16 and when I asked her if she was sorry, she said she hadn't done anything to be sorry for. I was her daughter and she could do what she liked to me.

She's stolen money from me and my gran (God rest her), lied, sold my clothing behind my back, cheated on my dad, you name it. There was never any bond and I feel better for her being out of my life. Seriously. My blood pressure is a lot easier to deal with these days.

PLUS: The number's genuine. It's the voicemail of someone who works for ITV. No-one picked up though, must be out-of-hours.
 

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No, this was someone calling from a TV company. I wonder if she got in touch with someone there and this was a researcher calling from one of those trashy talk shows...

She MIGHT be behind it because as I said, she's the only person I can think of who would know my dad's landline number, but not my own personal contact details.
It sounds like you're not going to call back that TV person, a decision I support, but if you do, use a pay phone a good distance away from where you live.

You have the TV person's name and number? How good are you at research, online and offline? Google is your friend.
 

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I can see it now...

SOMEWHERE IN A RAINY COUNTRYSIDE
A solitary road, lined with low stone walls.

A woman stands in a black slicker, her hair pasted to her head with the weight of the rain.

A black BMW pulls up.

Another woman steps out of the car. She looks similar to the first woman. Similar but older. She is SCARLET APRICOTS, the mother of SCARLET PEACHES. She's holding a gun.

/CUE thriller music.
 

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One could hope that your "mother" was smart enough to leave you alone. I sure hope for you that it isn't her.
 

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what is it with moms like these?
I just blogged about mine and how I have no idea where my daughter is.
 

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Take Ben's advice, go to a distant pay phone, preferably in a different town. Or have a friend call for you from a payphone in, say, London.

I promise it's not me, I haven't stalked anyoone in the British Isles for decades now. Stil, I doubt Fiona Fullerton would take a call from me even now.
 

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LOL!! I agree, Scarlett, only writers would turn a simple phone call into an international spy ring who has been watching you for the last 5 years, studying your every move. LOL!! Wouldn't it be funny if they wanted to sell you a years subscription to something??? But it would make an interesting story. I suggest you try calling again, until you get someone. And I'm sooo sorry your mother treated you in such a horrible way!! I hope one day you can find healing!!
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Give us all the number and we will call from all over the world saying we're you.
 

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I could call from a Casino pay phone for ya. That'll get 'em wondering. Green Valley Ranch, Sunset, or Fiesta. (I'd go with Green Valley, more posh.)
 

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While there is the potential for creepiness, it could be a person who is genuinely trying to get in touch with you for good reasons.

I reconnected with an old High School friend in a very similar manner a few years ago. She contacted my Dad's place of work (he's been there for 20 years and his name is listed on his workplace's website), but she was very specific about who she was and why she was trying to contact me. He vaguely remembered her, but as a precaution gave me the contact information she provided to him instead of handing out my information to her.

And I'm glad. She was a great friend whom I should never have gotten out of touch with in the first place. :)

It is weird that the person isn't forthcoming about why she wants to get in touch with you, but it's still worth it to find out ... just in case. I don't think I couldn't follow up - it would drive me crazy not knowing. :D