I haven't gotten a haircut or shaved in <garbled in transmission> years for two reasons:
1) People have said they prefer how I look with the longish hair and beard.
b. I just too danged lazy to be bothered.
(Though I think I need to start tending to the eyebrows. We're talking Ernest Borgnine proportions here, folks!)
If the man is a puppet, then the clothes can indeed make the man.
Clothes make a good accent to virtuous features.We hear that a lot, and I admit, most men should never take off their clothes or wear skimpy swimming trunks...
Anyway, I'm a sloppy dresser. Mostly just T-shirts and jeans and sneakers, etc. I own like three pairs of shoes, and that's all, and I find myself wearing the same things over and over again (especially pants) because I think I look good in them. I'm in good shape but I tend to hide behind sloppy clothes unless I'm trying to impress someone.
But every time I wear a jacket or a button-down shirt or something (even casually), people always say, "What's the occasion? What do you dress up for?" I often just blank out -- huh? Oh, it's the jacket. But somehow, people find me more "presentable," if you will. Perhaps because I tend to wear sloppily that they notice?
But if clothes make the man, why aren't we men care more about fashion? And why does men's fashion seem to stay about the same -- just a lot of recycling? Why we men don't care much about how we look when simply putting on a sport jacket would work like a charm?
Ray, writing at Starbucks in a gray T-shirt and jeans
Second hand leather jacket, diesel jeans and combat leather boots, that's what I call fashion. Leather pants are nice too. Wearing leather doesn't make a man, but creates what I call animal magnetism.
There is a place downtown that caters to men. They have sexy looking hair stylists, offer beer, and have sports playing on the tvs. The guys can get a full treatment, hair cut, shave, brows, and even a head and neck massage.
(No wonder Mr. Turkey gets a haircut all the time!)
Second hand leather jacket, diesel jeans and combat leather boots, that's what I call fashion. Leather pants are nice too. Wearing leather doesn't make a man, but creates what I call animal magnetism.