I had a post written up about this, deleted it, then thought about it the rest of the day. I've decided to go back and write it because I think there is something missing from the discussion.
In Cruz vs Feinstein, the problem isn't gun control, the problem isn't even politics, it's narcissism.
Politicians can be mean and condescending to each other and it won't make the news. At the end of the day, they're all coworkers, they share the same halls, the same bathrooms, and they all order takeout from the same place. What's so problematic about this disagreement isn't that it's about gun control, but that it's narcissism framed as a gun control debate.
Most people are narcissists. Politicians are even more narcissistic. Feinstein is a narcissist, and I believe so because the problem she had with Cruz wasn't that he had a differing opinion, but because he was condescending to her and thus shattered her image of being an experienced politician deserving of respect.
(Narcissism isn't just about getting attention; it's about maintaining an image.)
So what was her response? She went to national news outlets so she could restore her image as a knowledgeable, senior member of congress. Her grievance wasn't that Cruz was wrong, because that wouldn't be news, but that he was arrogant, the subtext being that as a fledgling politician persona wasn't worthy to demean her persona. She did it to save face, to protect her image. Her quote to him is telling:
"Let me just make a couple of points in response. One, I'm not a sixth grader. Senator, I've been on this committee for 20 years. I was a mayor for nine years. I walked in, I saw people shot. I've looked at bodies that have been shot with these weapons."
Those points, weren't really points. If they were, they would be something like - the founders didn't believe in all or nothing rights and responsibilities, being reasonable about solving social issues means admitting that there are exceptions to the rule and that few things are absolute (those are what I believe her words would have been). That would be a point, instead, she talked about herself.
"I've been on this committee for 20 years."
"I was a mayor."
"I saw people shot."
"I've looked at bodies..."
This even extended to the CNN interview:
"Well, I just felt patronized. I felt he was somewhat arrogant about it. When you come from where I've come from and what you've seen, when you found a dead body and put your finger in bullet holes, you really realize the impact of weapons..."
It's all about her experience. Cruz's perspective doesn't matter. She doesn't talk about what Cruz said, but how it made her feel.
"..and then as you go up the technical ladder with these weapons, and they become more sophisticated, and more the product of a battlefield, and you've got these huge clips, or drums of 100 bullets out there that people can buy, when you see these weapons becoming attractive to grievance killers, people who take them into schools, into theaters, into malls, you wonder, does America really need these weapons?..."
This would have been good food for thought, if she hadn't ended it with this:
"...My answer to that is no. And so it's based on my experience."
That's to be expected from a politician, but the way this "story" is portrayed turns discussions of governance into battles of political personas. Talking about the constitution or the ability and effectiveness to control guns is completely obscured by a narcissistic politician on one side and a condescending politician on the other. It's putting the image over ideas. People don't have to like Feinstein, they don't even need to agree with her political views, or even know what they are, they just need to hate Cruz more because the debate is framed through the people rather than the ideas.