I was attending a Catholic girl's school. It was our senior year and I and four of my friends were hitch hiking to Davenport, Iowa. We had rides all the way there. We hitched a lot and never had problems. I had a dress for graduation on layaway at a department store there. The dress is how we fixed the destination as Davenport and not Chicago. Then we went to Furrs (or Bishop's, can't remember which) Cafeteria for iced tea and strawberry pie. No cars allowed on campus--seems funny to say that now, but that was the way it was in those days. We girls could only get around by hitch hiking or taking the bus. Since Ted Bundy was only just getting started no one had any idea that folks killed folks serially. We did hitch in groups of 4 or 5 just in case but the worst thing that happened to any of us was the dreaded "fatherly" lecture from some dad who had a daughter our age.
Most of the girls in our school were from Chicago or the suburbs, a few were from the Quad cities. The hippie movement had taken the whole school by storm. Of course we dressed the part. It was like a fever--a good fever. We were going to change the world, stop the war, extinguish racism and demand our rightful place in society. Most of us were studying for nursing, secretarial jobs or teaching. There just wasn't much opportunity for girls in those days. Of that group we have a zoo vet, a surgical nurse for a dentist, a counselor and two teachers. We could have done more. We knew we could but no one was behind us. Girls in college was still a new trend.
As I remember our group was from Palatine, Chicago Heights, Skokie and Bettendorf. I was the only one from Kansas. We were wearing love beads, bell bottom jeans, braids and hats. I was wearing a boyfriends old ROTC shirt---the patches removed and replaced with peace signs. We were on our way home, when a sheriff from some small town in Illinois picked us up and hauled us to jail. His reasoning was that we were off campus agitators. He told us that there had been a shooting at a college in Ohio and it was all our fault and he hoped we dirty hippies were happy. In Korea, where he served during the war, girl children were routinely drowned. We should be thankful that men fought wars for us and stop being damned commies because only commies wanted to stop the war. War was damn good for the country and anyone who thought different should be shot!
We were outraged at this illogical and sexist reasoning-- don't know if we called it sexist back then, but we knew it was not fair. Our dads were all vets of WW2 and they would never drown us, commie or no. They didn't think war was so great, either. Roe told him that Korea was not even a real war and he had no business questioning the patriotism of the children of REAL soldiers. She told him that her dad had been a sea bee and dared him to call her dad and ask him which war was more real. (My own father was a marine who had seen plenty of action in WW2 but I was not so keen to have the sheriff call him.)
Roe was a small girl, 4'11 and weighed less than 100 pounds. It was always disturbing to her when adults did not take her seriously and she tended to over react. Her speech, while fiery and semi- logical, did not go over so well. He singled me out because I had profaned an army shirt. I said it was my boyfriend's old ROTC shirt and he profaned it first. I just added the beads. He said he could tell I was from out of state, come to Illinois to agitate, because of my "accent." I took umbrage. Western Kansas might be a weird place but we are all Amurikenz. To be smart I stopped speaking English and started speaking in Spanish. I told him my name was Panchita Villa and I had come over the border to shoot up his town and all the gringos in it.
In hindsight i can see that this only exacerbated the problem. We did see the inside of a cell but they didn't lock the door. We showed him what ID we had. Eventually he called our Dean of Women. About ten years ago my old roomies and I tried to remember the town. I wanted to say La Salle but they say we would have been going to Chicago if we passed La Salle. I had the dress in a bag with me, in the jail cell, so we were comig from Davenport. And La Salle is a bigger town. This town was really small.
Wherever it was, it was about thirty to forty minutes from our school in Clinton, Iowa. Sister showed up in the school station wagon, loaded us up and blistered our ears all the way home. It was a good old nunly ass chewing and it would have lasted longer if the ride had been longer. Anyone who has ever attended Catholic school has had a couple or three of these. Let me say this was the crown jewel in my personal crown of nunly ass rippings.
All we could say was "Yes Sister. No, Sister. Please don't call our dads, Sister." Guess we weren't the rebels we thought we were.
And neither were the kids who got shot. --s6