It really is all over. For just one example, a church in Harlem makes the news every so often for their anti-gay signs, including at least one calling for gays to be killed.
Ugh! This pisses me off so badly. How in the world is calling for ANYone to be killed living a Christ-like life? They give "real" Christians, those who simply believe that we should all strive to love as Jesus did (whether he was a man or God's son) a bad name.
Now THAT is uplifting and amazing. Thank you for sharing that.
The "agenda" described by those bigots is almost always about how gay people want to corrupt the youth of America, or "convert" their children...which is a big part of why homophobia to be the right term.
It is not just that the hypothetical person is scared that they are gay. It is that they are terrified of their children being gay - and that terror turns to anger. I mean, it was only very recently that the use of "gay panic" defenses were made illegal.
In one state.
(though, thankfully, it often fails elsewhere)
Here's the flash: The gay "lifestyle" is pretty much like the straight "lifestyle" in that there IS no set lifestyle.
Exactly.
Whenever anyone says someone has an "agenda," it has a negative connotation and usually means that said person selfishly strives to preserve his or her own twisted beliefs through any means possible.
And "lifestyle" means simply how people live - I prefer the suburbs, you prefer the city. I want kids, you don't. I drive a truck, you want a sports car. I like musicals, you prefer movies.
THAT is lifestyle.
There is no "gay lifestyle" or "straight lifestyle" because we all live and have the same choices to make in life. The way I live being straight it no different than my Aunt and her partner! (Except they live on 60 acres in the middle of nowhere, and we'd rather be here in the suburbs.)