I understand the sympathy people have for the appalling way the Irish have been treated over the centuries, after all I'm part Irish myself all the way back to the family roots in Roscommon. According to my father, there's even a family Banshee.
However, having lived in England during the 80s when the IRA were engaged in their attacks on the mainland, I lost what romantic notions I once held towards the IRA as "freedom fighters". I was in London when the Baltic Exchange bomb went off, I heard it three miles away, and it is not a sound I am likely to forget.
There is no 'black and white', there are bad people on both sides and there are a lot of myths and misconceptions that have arisen, like Chinese Whispers, the further away one is from the battlefield, the more the stories become muddled. A former colleague of mine was a Protestant from Portstewart who told me that, if the six counties were taken back into the Republic her family would return to England, as would many others but, I've also sat in the house of a friend in Limerick and heard her (Irish Catholic)friends say that they would not want the Six Counties back because of the problems the Irish government could inherit. Incidentally, they also told me the story about the American tourist wanting to take a picture of their children,telling them to take their shoes off, so the tourist could go back home and show their friends picture of poor, oppressed, barefoot little Irish children.