Yeah, but I'm arrogant and selfish, so often I fail to care about other's interests . Hamartia, she's a killer.
I'm trapped in the 90s.
Yeah, I used to be like that too, but people kept yelling at me and stuff. So I changed.
I think.
I'll still defend things I like and slam other things for the fun of healthy debate, but when it comes down to it, I'll never really tell someone that their interests are lower than mine. Because I know I would hate for someone to do the same thing to me.
Nothing wrong with that, NoG. At the beginning of this past semester there was a 90s themed dance. Seriously one of the most fun dances I've been to in a very long time.
I feel that way more about the 80s than the 90s, but I see your point.
I'm going to see T-Swift in concert tomorrow!
ETA: Whenever I spend time with an elitest who tells me my tastes are wrong or inferior, I end up reverting to anorexia. When someone tells me what I like is wrong, it's basically like telling me that I don't deserve to be happy, and that I'm supremely flawed. So I stop eating, because I go back to my mentality that every flaw I have inside has to be made up for by exterior perfection.
So yes. Telling people their tastes is wrong can literally destroy lives.
I just don't agree that there is a best. Because what a person likes is what makes them happy. And telling them that they shouldn't like something is the same as telling them they shouldn't be happy. It's that simple.
I'm going to bed now, because I am a (not really growing anymore) child who needs her sleep!
ETA: Oh, one more thing, that's also quite interesting. Most of the 'big' people I know are much smarter than I am and very smug about it, and since I'm kind of not that smart, I just focus on being pretty.
, and since I'm kind of not that smart, I just focus on being pretty.
Raven- I'm a total non-outliner, though. My characters always seem to veer off the outline within a few pages. They are very uncooperative.