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When I ask if your friends are jealous of your writing, what I'm really asking is if they're upset by your writing schedule.
I'm working on editing one WIP and writing its sequel. With the amount of work this involves, I've allowed my social life to get swept under the rug. Instead of going to a party I'd much rather work on chapter seven. Instead of playing Softball on Wednesday nights I am playing "How can I replace 'was' this time?" Basically, I lack the inclination to do anything but write.
Recently, a friend of mine said that she was jealous of my writing because it took her away from me. I felt bad about this. At the same time, I didn't. Writing is extremely important to me and I don't want to put it aside for anything.
How do you balance writing and socializing? Do you carve out time for friends or do you not allow anything to get in the way of your goal? Should I be taking breaks to keep my friends happy, or should I focus on my goal? What would you do?
I'm working on editing one WIP and writing its sequel. With the amount of work this involves, I've allowed my social life to get swept under the rug. Instead of going to a party I'd much rather work on chapter seven. Instead of playing Softball on Wednesday nights I am playing "How can I replace 'was' this time?" Basically, I lack the inclination to do anything but write.
Recently, a friend of mine said that she was jealous of my writing because it took her away from me. I felt bad about this. At the same time, I didn't. Writing is extremely important to me and I don't want to put it aside for anything.
How do you balance writing and socializing? Do you carve out time for friends or do you not allow anything to get in the way of your goal? Should I be taking breaks to keep my friends happy, or should I focus on my goal? What would you do?