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Oh, I only raised perfect children. (The memory does get selective!) I'm with TJwriter--I don't even want to comment on a child who's having a melt-down, is a grouch, whines, or is disobedient, because I've been the parent of such a child. Every parent has.
What I do want to comment on (but don't) is the parent who makes empty threats, so there is no consequence for bad actions despite warnings, especially about behaviors that annoy or hurt others.
What I actually do, on occasion, is remark on first-rate parenting in a semi-difficult situation when I happen to see it and the opportunity to praise presents itself. Every frustrated mom or dad deserves a pat on the back for ignoring the pleas or temper tantrum and reminds the kid they're not buying candy or a toy, then goes about their business (or, in a nice restaurant or similar setting, takes the child outside to simmer down).
Maryn, perfect parent (ha!)
What I do want to comment on (but don't) is the parent who makes empty threats, so there is no consequence for bad actions despite warnings, especially about behaviors that annoy or hurt others.
What I actually do, on occasion, is remark on first-rate parenting in a semi-difficult situation when I happen to see it and the opportunity to praise presents itself. Every frustrated mom or dad deserves a pat on the back for ignoring the pleas or temper tantrum and reminds the kid they're not buying candy or a toy, then goes about their business (or, in a nice restaurant or similar setting, takes the child outside to simmer down).
Maryn, perfect parent (ha!)