Deleted member 42
[deep breath]
This is what continues to peck at me about this discussion.
Your sexuality is lots of people's business. In our default heterosexual society, we just don't recognize it.
Hang on now.
I had my partner's picture on my desk. She visited me at work. We socialized with some of my colleagues.
I referred to her as my partner; people knew we lived together, and saw her dropping me off at work.
Our sexuality was not anyone's business. Our relationship was public. They are not identical, though relationship and sexual orientation overlap on a Venn diagram.
A man and a woman in a similar situation would not be expected to declare heterosexuality.
Why should a same-sex couple have to declare homosexuality?
Why should a polyamorous person be expected to declare that to colleagues? Or someone who is bisexual or assexual?
It's not anyone's business.
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