JR Ward's Black Dagger Brotherhood books have multiple male-POV sex scenes.
BTW, there is no rule that says you can't use both POVs in your sex scene.
Love that series. Those men are hawt!
JR Ward's Black Dagger Brotherhood books have multiple male-POV sex scenes.
BTW, there is no rule that says you can't use both POVs in your sex scene.
I alternate them in mine, because each brings something different to it. If you go for thecmale perspective have you a male beta who can look at it?
The problem I'm having is not about how to write a sex scene, but how to get into my male character's head in a sex scene.
I have tried writing the scene from his POV once, but it went somewhere COMPLETELY unexpected and made me blush. It also made him look like a jerk.
Did it just make him look like a jerk, or is your character actually a jerk? (Or rather, a jerk about this - he could be a fine, noble character in many ways and still have areas of jerkdom.) I'm sometimes really reluctant to write a character being a jerk. Especially a character I like, and especially around such a loaded subject as sex. Don't know if that's the case for you.
If it was me, I'd try to get through a draft in his POV (possibly in a seperate, easily deleted file) without worrying about whether he's being a jerk or a dork or a convincing romantic male or anything, and just worry about whether he's being himself. And then worry about what people will think of him/me later.