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A question for you married folks (and unmarried folks might learn something here).
What was it like for you when you first got married? Was money tight? Was a baby coming (or already there?)? Did you have to live with in-laws?
I'll start.
I got a new job right after graduation in 1996 that paid $9.50 an hour. No overtime yet. We got married (it was planned for a long time) two months later. We got an apartment at around $400 a month. She didn't have a job yet. So, for the first few months, money was really tight until I went on the road for my job, then we had enough money to live comfortably. Not extravagently, though.
After coming off the road, it was back to 40-50 hour weeks. We had to stick to an absolute grocery budget and carry a calculator. We had to pay bills days before they were due. Most of our furniture was donated.
Eventually she got a part-time job, while I worked full time. Then she started going to school and I got a new job in late 1997. Then things got a lot easier.
We bought our house in 2000 and have lived there ever since.
The baby is scheduled to be born March 1.
allen
What was it like for you when you first got married? Was money tight? Was a baby coming (or already there?)? Did you have to live with in-laws?
I'll start.
I got a new job right after graduation in 1996 that paid $9.50 an hour. No overtime yet. We got married (it was planned for a long time) two months later. We got an apartment at around $400 a month. She didn't have a job yet. So, for the first few months, money was really tight until I went on the road for my job, then we had enough money to live comfortably. Not extravagently, though.
After coming off the road, it was back to 40-50 hour weeks. We had to stick to an absolute grocery budget and carry a calculator. We had to pay bills days before they were due. Most of our furniture was donated.
Eventually she got a part-time job, while I worked full time. Then she started going to school and I got a new job in late 1997. Then things got a lot easier.
We bought our house in 2000 and have lived there ever since.
The baby is scheduled to be born March 1.
allen