I'm not taking it any more personally than you are.
Yes, I changed that line in my post. Didn't quite think it made sense on rereading it. But you have to admit you have been using words that give the impression that you are overwhelmed with shock by some of the attitudes here, and thus makes it seem like you have a personal investment in the issue. Which you do. I didn't know you wrote Goodreads reviews until this post.
I don't think your opinion in particular has been extreme. I have been boggled by the people saying that no one should ever post a negative review, that commenting negatively on a book is a waste of time (or worse, says something unsavory about your character), or that only professional reviewers should do so. (Actually, you did kind of imply that yourself.)
Didn't just imply. I don't have a problem at all with blog reviewing, but I will say that I find what has happened with the democratisation of reviewing isn't altogether a good thing. Not everyone's opinions are equal, and yet many are treated as such. It's the same thing with the 24 hour news cycle, with all these "pundits", some of whom are just people with strong opinions but no expertise in the field. At any rate, I don't think it's a waste of time to critique books. And I don't think only people who work for known trades are experts. There are many bloggers who I very much respect. But this is a discussion for another thread.
I think perhaps also you're conflating every type of review together. To me, there's quite a big difference between me clicking one star on Goodreads for a book I hated and writing a lengthy, vitriolic trashing of the book on my Big Professional Author Blog. Yes, I totally get that the latter would probably be inadvisable, unless you feel so strongly about the book that you're willing to take the backlash. But as far as people combing my Amazon and Goodreads reviews and giving me shit because I gave some book one or two stars? Yeah, I'm willing to take the risk that someday my dream agent will see that and take offense and I'll die lonely and semi-unpublished. That's not "sticking my fingers in my ears," it's saying that I don't think living in fear of such petty people is worth it to me. Yes, I understand that such petty people exist.
I'm not conflating them. I am merely saying that any time a person states an opinion it is subject to criticism. From a vitriolic review, to a brilliantly sensitive critique, to a one star. And that's great that you don't live in fear of such petty people. My point, as I've said numerous times, is that it's up to each of us to choose which battles to fight. And in order to make such a decision one ought to be well informed of all sides. You have chosen to keep reviewing knowing that you'd never want to work with anyone who'd take something like that personally. I think that's a very sound reason. For me, as I've also said before, since I don't review books anyway, I don't see any sense in running the risk of offending when I don't have a need to.
But I do write film reviews, and I'm an actor. And I have chosen to stick with the film reviews despite maybe offending potential people I'd like to work with. Why film over books? I like writing film reviews and I have no desire to write book reviews. I'm willing to take a bit of a risk with something about which I have a passion, but not with something I couldn't care less about.
Incidentally, I do not post a lot of vitriolic reviews, and there aren't that many books that I give one or two stars. Just like everyone else, I tend to read books that I at least expect to enjoy, and consequently, there aren't that many that I've finished despite being disappointed. But when I do, I participate in various reader communities as well as Goodreads and Amazon, and I think honest reviews and ratings are a service to fellow readers. Of course no one is going to choose or not choose a book solely on its Amazon rating, let alone based solely on my review, but I've found it usually is significant when a book has a markedly higher or lower average rating than others in its genre. So adopting a "Never click less than 5 stars" policy, to me, would be not only dishonest, but subverting the purpose of ratings.
And like I said, for me it's not about only clicking 5 stars, it's about not bothering to click in the first place. For you you have a very specific motivation to help readers. And so you have your reasons to want to. My public persona is more to help would be writers, and as such I comment in threads like these
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Nor do I think you have to be an "expert" reviewer to review helpfully. People who read my reviews will decide for themselves how close their tastes are to mine. I've had a number of people react to my reviews by saying "I will read this" (or "Sounds awful, I'll give that one a pass"). Conversely, I've had people respond to reviews by saying "What you said you hated about that book is exactly the sort of thing I love, so I'm going to check it out." Cool. Do I have to be a professional reviewer to be worthy of wielding such immense reviewing power that one or two people might make a book purchasing decision based on what I post?
I don't know. Like I said, it's a very complicated issue to me, and I don't feel that only the trades should be allowed to review. I also think it's pretty obvious you read a lot, and write a lot, and thus know both of what you review and how to do it in a compelling fashion. So, in a way, you are an expert. But I can't say that I like the idea that someone can write a cruel review of my work with personal threats and their star rating contributes to the overall average my book gets. At any rate. Like I said before, this is a conversation for another thread.
(P.S. I gave
Alex and the Ironic Gentleman 4 stars. I hope that's not offensive.
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Well I do wonder where that last star went . . .
. (seriously though, that's lovely of you to do so, thank you)
Look I'm not "offended" by reviews. I can be hurt by truly thoughtless ones, but at the same time I discard them because clearly the reviewer is crazy. I'm not one of the authors you need to worry about, though I will say that if say you had given me a bad review and then asked me to blurb your work, I'm not entirely sure how I'd feel about that
. I'd like to think I'd set the review aside and read your work and judge it based on its own merit, but if you'd written one of those scathing reviews? One of the ones that got personal with attacks on the author herself? Chances are I wouldn't want to blurb someone I didn't respect. But there are other authors out there who ARE petty. And agents. And editors. And you don't care and that's awesome. I'm not trying to convince you to care. I am trying to make sure everyone is aware of all sides to the argument so that they can make informed choices. I don't, personally, think there is a right or wrong to the question. I truly don't. I'm just trying to help and offer some insight.