There are times when I sort of wake up and realize that wait a minute, I'm trying to interest people in these weird characters doing imaginary things and I expect people to take it all seriously.
They're not imaginary to me. Sometimes I've seen my characters on the street.
On one unsettling occasion, I was actually introduced to Phyllis Nystrom, the main character in my first novel project. Her appearance, her speech, even her assertiveness were all so familiar, I could predict what she was going to say next.
It was all I could do to force myself to use her actual name while talking to her.