Sat Nam! (Literally "Truth Name"--a Sikh greeting)

Congrats! Especially for the Self discovery. Our desires aren't what we are. It's always good to know that. And that you've allowed yourself to change suggests you've grown in maturity. Insecurity is for the immature. Not the young, necessarily. But growing out of those old gnarly skins is always a sign of progress. And so, again, congrats!

Blessings,

Siri Kirpal