Whether it's "too much" for YA depends on the particular reader, the particular agent, the particular publisher, the particular "gatekeepers" of any kind, your intent, the way it's perceived, etc.
From your descriptions, I wouldn't personally say it's too much for YA (how I'd feel about a story like this would really depend on the handling of it all I guess).
My experience, which might help in some way: My WIP in present form is likely "too much"/too edgy for YA, and my Pitch Wars Mentor thinks I should probably tone down some of the edge (to increase marketability / chances of traditional publishing). It's sexual content that makes it edgy (everything else is pretty clean; the only mention of drugs, for instance, is that they don't do much for the MC, like his natural manic and adrenaline highs do). It's too edgy despite all sex scenes being "fade-to-black" and nothing graphic. Edginess is expected in a story like mine, which involves things like juvenile sex trafficking, but ironically that's all fine (even the brief section when the MC is pimped and dissociates), but the relationship with the older girlfriend/music manager is the problem. It's story relevant, but still probably a problem.
If you're going traditional, this is an example of how conservative it can get: My mentor noted at the one use of "tits" in my MS that her editor (she's published by a big name) made her take out "tits" in her YA novel and replace it with "breasts." I don't think many teenage boys say "breasts" and it's a complete voice violation, but...
I think I hear edgier commercials than is allowed in YA.
I'd say there are certain things that are too edgy for YA presently, no matter how they're handled, at least for some readers/gatekeepers.