Writing this from my phone, so forgive any formatting issues
There's several ideas here that are food, but not quite the right fit. For instance, the Fuckit List, love this, but she's not the sort who would say or think "Fuck it," or "Fuck this," even after her awakening, so I can't have this sort of contradiction, regardless of how much it fits and i like it.
The fairy tale theme...again, appealing, but not really the right fit for her. And i agree with the theme would have to carry throughout the piece and I'm not interested in taking on that constraint.
But the true north, the windrose, these concepts resonate, these fit with her thinking. Imma play around with the ideas in my lil brain and see what pops out.
Thanks for all the comments and suggestions! Awesome help!