My cousin's daughter makes maps for a living--can't remember the term for the profession but she has degree in it, spent years earning it from a university. She travels a lot, so we don't see her that often but she was home for holidays a couple years ago. I spent a good hour visiting with her about her work, listening to her adventures. Days later, my brother heard from someone that Haley worked with surveys and maps. His reaction? "Why didn't anyone tell me? I'm nuts about maps! I'd love to tell her about MY maps."
Yeah. Jimmy, our cousin, told you. I heard him say it. Instead of listening, you shook her hand, brushed past her and went into the kitchen to talk shotguns, footballs and dicks with the dicks.
Okay. I've told several ugly stories about my brother so I have to tell one good one. Some years ago a co-worker of his mentioned that his sister was waiting for him on the parking lot. She had been released from a hospital in Wichita after a serious illness and operation. From Wichita to her hometown in western Kansas, is an almost a 3 hour trip. Her family had been leap frogging her across Kansas,, one sibling picking her up in Wichita and driving her to the next sibling's house, just dropping her and her suitcase off like a parcel. When my brother heard about this, he drove the woman, a complete stranger, straight to her door, helped her into the house and told her to call him if she had trouble. Her own brother offered him gas money but my brother would not take it. For days he fumed about this treatment. He said over and over that he could not respect anyone who treated his sister like that. NOT to his eternal credit, he also had to add "and she wasn't even good looking!"
And this is why I love him so. Oh, and the night my husband died he was the first family on the scene, flying all the way from Eugene, Oregon on very short notice. He walked through the door after midnight. I threw myself into his arms. He was carrying a hacksaw--swear to god. Because he knew our downstairs shower needed to be re-plumbed. --s6