Thread title is a little, um, sensational...
No kidding. Certainly got my attention.
Raped Into Next Tuesday! Coming this fall on Fox!
Thread title is a little, um, sensational...
(Also, the sheer number of times Claire is assaulted, plus the number of times rape is referenced in Outlander is beyond disturbing. I won't speak to the accuracy of such a number, but it's disturbing, which I'm sure is the idea.)
Thread title is a little, um, sensational...
No kidding. Certainly got my attention.
Raped Into Next Tuesday! Coming this fall on Fox!
Okay, I don't know a lot about the Outlander series, save it's a popular, action adventure/romance set in 18th century Scotland. So it came as quite a surprise to me that when, reading some reviews of the first book (and first-season television series) that the heroine is raped, or nearly raped, or threatened with rape an inordinate number of times, and that SPOILER!!
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The hero is also raped, quite brutally and sadistically, as a titillating plot point. Which came as a surprise to me, as I thought that in the romance genre heroes are generally NOT raped. I know that in many, many fanfic stories there's rape and brutalism a-plenty, but not that it's crept in to a mainstream book. Am I just naive? Or is this a new trend? Or should I just read more?
Which one of them? I just saw an on-screen rape in episode 8 in dramatic and poorly done, tacky and ridiculous slow motion. It was far from titillating, and Claire lost me. She is always so smug, overconfident, and downright arrogant towards people less modern than herself, grins through every challenge, doesn't scream when frightened, so her falling into shock and needing to be carried the ONE time nobody saves her, is not credible by a long shot.Maybe I'm blocking out the memory, but I remember the "action" (as it were) happening off screen in the novel.
I'm only watching the show, but this boy - that's what Jamie is - commanding his wife to let him beat her instead of just talking to her about the trouble she's caused, truly was ridiculous. What made it worse, was the way they showed it. They made it comical. WTF. Hell, he was right to be mad and had he hit her in anger, I would have said, well that's understandable, because her selfishness put everyone's life at stake and she hardly showed any remorse, and that's part of why I hate her. "I'm a damsel in distress, save me but don't you dare crit me, because I'm modern". But to sit down and calmly announce "And now I'm gonna beat you and you have to let me"? Hell no.Personally, the beatings of the heroine by the man she fell in love with eventually bothered me far more, to the point I had to stop reading. I can handle pathos and grittiness and realistic portrayals of Stockholm syndrome and power inequalities in patriarchal societies, but if battery is being portrayed as justified or (shudder) romantic, I just can't handle it.
I didn't justify anything. On the contrary, his calm, premeditated decision to beat her was ludicrous. I think a man beating a woman in the heat of the moment is no worse than man on man, woman on man, or woman on woman, but that is not something you get up and plan to do, it happens like it happens to me to kick the nearest object or scream abuse at someone who's acutely and currently pushing my buttons, like when Claire slapped Leerie. Had Claire told Leerie to come, bend over, and take a spanking, that would be just as sick as Jamie announcing to Claire that she's about to get "punished".Selfish bitch or no, a man doesn't have the right to beat a woman as punishment for her behavior (and punishment never convinced a single human soul that what they were doing was wrong anyway). Now if a woman is threatening someone, or is about to do something that would put everyone in danger, then I'd say a guy has the same right (even obligation) to use necessary force to stop her from doing it at the time, the same way he would a man. But beating after the fact? That just feels wrong.
Now if the culture is sexist, and that's how people think, then it may be realistic. Or maybe they'd flog or beat a man for doing the same thing. But FFS, don't say it's a romantic story. Women fall in love with abusers sometimes, especially when they're isolated from other forms of emotional support. But it's pathological, not romantic.
And justifying it by making her selfish and immature sends a terrible message to all the women who are abused by romantic partners who claim they deserve it, that if they weren't so bitchy and selfish, if they didn't screech and nag, if they remembered to do the chores, if they didn't spend too much money, if they didn't burn dinner, if they just showed more respect or forget who the boss was, if they didn't insist on having opinions, if they didn't breathe so loud, the guys wouldn't "have to" hit them.
Blerg.