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Because I'm what might be called "invisibly queer" (i.e. as long as they don't try to hook me up with someone, my asexuality is unlikely to come up),
This actually became a big problem in church for an asexual Evangelical friend of mine a couple of decades ago. At the time ace was not really something many people were aware of. People in his church kept trying to matchmake for him and, of course, it didn't work. That wasn't the major nuisance. The problem was that he was a Sunday School teacher and as he grew older and still wasn't married, a certain amount of suspicion grew and he had to give up his position as a teacher, because, of course, an unmarried man couldn't be trusted around children.
As a result his church lost the teaching services of a devoted, caring, smart, and faithful man. And, of course, since he's asexual he's the least likely person to be a sexual predator.