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The article calls it being crucified, but I don't know that I'd go that far. And the article didn't quote any of the tweets that were against him, so I had to go look.
Saw some stuff here.
And this. User Actions@Walters_Rex he can write about "masculinity" all he likes, as long as he shuts up about feminism, cause he ain't one. @matthaig
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.@flexicoplex Erm, that is EXACTLY what I am wanting to do. How many times do I have to say it?
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Seems to be a lot of anger because he dared called himself a feminist, and since he's, yaknow, a man, that's co-opting. His book is mansplaining. (Never mind nobody has read it, cause he hasn't even written it yet.) If you read through his tweets, he's not talking about the MRA movement and in fact makes it clear he thinks they're part of the problem. And his intentions seem pretty good to me.
But I guess it brings up a good question. Can men be feminists? Is that allowed? Or are we just oppressing women when we do that?
Can a man speak of these issues without mansplaining?
Yes, you guessed it. Poll to follow.
Saw some stuff here.
And this. User Actions@Walters_Rex he can write about "masculinity" all he likes, as long as he shuts up about feminism, cause he ain't one. @matthaig
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Matt Haig @matthaig1 Jun 14
.@FlexicoPlex how clear can I put this? I am not denying female oppression, I am trying to stop it by calling for a more fluid masculinity.
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Plex Flexico @FlexicoPlex Jun 14
@matthaig1 How about you listen to women re their own oppression and work on dismantling toxic masculinity for the sake of men?
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.@flexicoplex Erm, that is EXACTLY what I am wanting to do. How many times do I have to say it?
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Seems to be a lot of anger because he dared called himself a feminist, and since he's, yaknow, a man, that's co-opting. His book is mansplaining. (Never mind nobody has read it, cause he hasn't even written it yet.) If you read through his tweets, he's not talking about the MRA movement and in fact makes it clear he thinks they're part of the problem. And his intentions seem pretty good to me.
- Matt Haig @matthaig1 5h5 hours ago
And by sexist I mean those crazy MRA people too.
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Personally, I don't call myself a feminist, but that's because it's a label that I've found means different things to different people. If you want to know my views on specific things, we can talk, but I don't want to rely on a label to sum up how I think.Haig insisted that “it is NOT sexist to say that a tightly defined construct of masculinity harms men” and added that he was “suspicious of all those silencing [phrases] like man flu and man up and mansplaining, because men need to talk more about feelings not less”.
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Haig, whose novels include The Radleys and The Last Family in England, said that a book about “a crisis in masculinity” would not be antifeminist. “How clear can I put this? I am not denying female oppression, I am trying to stop it by calling for a more fluid masculinity,” he wrote. “I have never felt oppressed by women, or that feminism is a problem. I do think boys find it hard to like things seen as feminine. I want my son not to feel self-conscious he likes ballet and my daughter to carry on playing Han Solo, that’s all.”
He told the Guardian that, while he “knew that gender is a sensitive and potentially heated subject, and that Twitter can be a bubbling cauldron of animosity”, he was surprised at the reaction his comments provoked. “The moment I said I was writing a book about masculinity, and at first that is all I said, I had people telling me that it was anti-feminist,” he said.
But I guess it brings up a good question. Can men be feminists? Is that allowed? Or are we just oppressing women when we do that?
Can a man speak of these issues without mansplaining?
Yes, you guessed it. Poll to follow.
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