I'm confused about the 11 year old thing. The OP said the kids in the class were sophomores in high school, which is 15-16. 11 year olds are in fifth or sixth grade, maybe. That's elementary school, not high school or junior high.
I would object to the snooping and selfie thing, however, even if they were college age. It's never right to invade someone else's privacy.
But if they took some high school sophomores to a sex shop for a field trip for a sex ed class, and their parents signed permissions slips, then so be it. But how did we get from the selfie thing to the Smitten Kitten?
I'm guessing that the purpose of an assignment that teaches teens about sex toys is to let them know that it's normal to feel sexual arousal, and there are options for satisfying them besides intercourse.
I'd think the abstinence-only crowd would be all for it. No one gets pregnant or venereal disease from sex toys (well, unless they share them, but that's another issue).
Roxxmom, there were two separate, unrelated articles in this thread. Getting into the parents' private things was sophomores in California and the sex store was the younger kids in Minnesota.
About the Smitten Kitten, I looked at the site and it just didn't work for me. It says "A progressive sex toy store for everyone." No, not everyone because introducing sex toys to children is perverted. While a store owner may
want to present their store as a family friendly sex education classroom AND adult toy/ porn store, that doesn't mean people have to accept that combination. I really don't think children belong in there with all kinds of adult things they're not equipped to understand and don't need to understand yet (whether in a separate "section" or not), as well as being subjected to whatever sexually motivated adults may come into the store. A sexually oriented business is not health class and the school nurse seems to me a far more reasonable choice for that than a "trained" sex shop sales clerk.
And the fact is, the parents
weren't consulted, and the children
were subjected to the inappropriate things so are they just going to do whatever they want and keep saying, "Whoopsie?" From what I read, the store is laid out in such a way that that was typical and not a fluke, which they were cited for after the field trip story came out. What kind of sex educator doesn't concern themselves with parental permission slips when instructing pre-teens anyway? What is that person's qualifications to teach sex education to children? I believe in my state you have to be 18 to enter an adult toy store. I mean, a business owner may want to position themselves as a daycare and bar too but that doesn't make it an acceptable blurring of lines.
About the sophomores and parental sex toys, even if he was joking, why is a geometry teacher discussing sex toys with fifteen-year-old students?
Sex education should be based on what's age-appropriate and context-appropriate for the children, not on what an adult feels like oversharing with the children behind the parents' backs (which then leads to questions about the adult's motives). Neither of these teachers had any business doing what they did.