Good luck Diana, and congrats amillimiles!!!! It's always so wonderful to hear good news from the AW fam!!!
Bingo. One of the agents whose podcast I listen to regularly says she only hands out R & R's when she's like 99.99 percent sure she wants to rep someone, but she wants to see if they're willing to put in the work. Given how much time agents invest in authors before they ever make a dime I think this is completely fair, even though the waiting game can be frustrating from the perspective of the writer at times.
There are agents out there that make the phone call with the full intention of offering representation, but will "hide it" behind a request and revision. Mostly because they want to see how you react to this. If you blow up on them and start screaming about the sanctity of your precious words, that's already a big red flag and they'll be glad they didn't make the offer. If you agree to it, go back, look at your words, decide "Nope, still too precious," then hand it back in without making any of the suggested changes at all, that's also a big red flag. If you hear the changes, think some make sense, others don't, discuss it rationally, both come to an agreement about what changes to make, then go off, make them, and submit it back in a reasonable period of time, there will probably be a new phone call request, this time to actually offer representation.
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Bingo. One of the agents whose podcast I listen to regularly says she only hands out R & R's when she's like 99.99 percent sure she wants to rep someone, but she wants to see if they're willing to put in the work. Given how much time agents invest in authors before they ever make a dime I think this is completely fair, even though the waiting game can be frustrating from the perspective of the writer at times.