Hmm. This is an interesting discussion! I'm surprised to see any disagreement at all. I thought there was a general consensus that using adverbs in dialogue tags is lazy writing that calls for revision. I didn't think about it as a "modern" standard. It makes me want to go back and re-read all the classics to see how often Tolstoy or Austen or Dickens used adverbs? Not to prove any particular point either. I'm really just curious.
@OP I prefer Roxxsmom's revisions. Even if a modern reader isn't distracted by adverbs, why use them when you can do better? I'd rather see someone pushing away their plate and then make up my own mind about how they feel about the fries. There's room for nuance and subtlety there. I guess I don't like to be told what to think. So I guess it comes down to personal taste and what kind of story you're telling.
Read John Steinbeck, or probably anything during that era. After reading Tortilla Flat, and Of Mine and Men, it got me thinking of the adverbs after dialogue. There was one dialogue that really stuck out. So much so that my writer-brain went, "ouch!"
But I think it was proper back then. I don't know when the trend of excising adverbs happened.