Who would want a partner they weren't attracted to?
"It's a shame it's had to come to this, but will you be my partner?"
"Okay! Who gives a shit."
I had that happen, and it turned into a long relationship. I didn't think I was attracted to him that way, and we were friends. Frankly, it was after he kissed me that I got the spark
He was the best in bed ever, as it turns out. You just wouldn't know it by watching him goof around at the park
It wasn't that I found him unattractive before. It's just that his normal behavior didn't flip my trigger sexually. He had a secret stealth mode that did it! And he was great fun in his funny-guy mode, too, so it worked all around!
Looks themselves aren't what gets me, though. I'm about mannerisms, I think maybe. And when it gets down to it with primal attraction, I'm about pretty intimate stuff, lol. So an 'ugly' dude could work just great with me, depending!
I've also dated good-looking guys who didn't do it for me so much in bed or kissing. That sort of thing is just so idiosyncratic, imho. You never know until you go there with the person you like.