I don't see any difference in how any of their kids turned out. I can't tell which 25 year old had a stay-home mother, a working mother, a single mother or father. So, think if a child just has one good parent who has their best interest at heart, that is by far the thing that makes the difference.
This is exactly the point. Just because a person works doesn't mean they don't spend time and effort on their kids. Just because a person stays at home doesn't mean they will.
Also, gee it would have been nice if we all could have supported each other rather than that nasty competitive attitude in the first place.
Still seeing that.