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Thanks, altoid. It was a messy divorce, years and years ago now. I honestly don't even really think about it (or him) much at all anymore, but seeing him in person brings a lot of it back to the surface. I guess you never really forget some things, but I moved on a long time ago.
Somewhat ironically, I learned a lot about V's own divorce this morning, and for him the pain is still raw and very deep. So I can say with certainty he is not using me at all, he really is hurting badly. As I mentioned once before, it's something I recognize in others because of my own. I hate being right about it, though.
I'm not dumb enough to think I can "heal" him, but if he needs me I'll be there. No one ever was for me.
Anyway, no point dwelling on this stuff when there's so much to do.
Got a coffee in hand and lots of plans. First up, need to set up my BuJo for next week.
Somewhat ironically, I learned a lot about V's own divorce this morning, and for him the pain is still raw and very deep. So I can say with certainty he is not using me at all, he really is hurting badly. As I mentioned once before, it's something I recognize in others because of my own. I hate being right about it, though.
I'm not dumb enough to think I can "heal" him, but if he needs me I'll be there. No one ever was for me.
Anyway, no point dwelling on this stuff when there's so much to do.
Got a coffee in hand and lots of plans. First up, need to set up my BuJo for next week.