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I think one arguement against it is that while finally people are seeing being gay as how you're born, being poly is considered a choice. And if you have a legalized marriage, then a man who works for ABC company has three wives, his comapany would have to pay insurance for all of them.
I'm not familar enough with poly to render an informed opion, so I'd like to hear more about it. I know one family that lives in a poly fedelity marraige. However, I don't want to hold them up as an example of others as I didn't think their relationship was healthy. They lived in a way that the husband was in "Charge" and whatever decision was made, that was it. We knew their son because one of my daughters knew him. If he was over my house, he had to ask his mom if he could stay for dinner and then she would have to ask the husband and the answer was no until it was yes.
The 2nd wife was very timid who they described as being very damaged and they took in. She ended up leaving to go back with her parents and the police actually escorted her to get her things. And before that there was another 2nd wife who was also "Damaged" (This according to the poly couple) that they helped and she turned her backs on them.
It just seemed to me that they were taking in women who were low in confidence and skills and had other issues on purpose. But as I said, I don't believe that represents most poly families.
I'm not familar enough with poly to render an informed opion, so I'd like to hear more about it. I know one family that lives in a poly fedelity marraige. However, I don't want to hold them up as an example of others as I didn't think their relationship was healthy. They lived in a way that the husband was in "Charge" and whatever decision was made, that was it. We knew their son because one of my daughters knew him. If he was over my house, he had to ask his mom if he could stay for dinner and then she would have to ask the husband and the answer was no until it was yes.
The 2nd wife was very timid who they described as being very damaged and they took in. She ended up leaving to go back with her parents and the police actually escorted her to get her things. And before that there was another 2nd wife who was also "Damaged" (This according to the poly couple) that they helped and she turned her backs on them.
It just seemed to me that they were taking in women who were low in confidence and skills and had other issues on purpose. But as I said, I don't believe that represents most poly families.