I am eligible to join SFWA, but haven't done so - partly because I don't consider myself a SF writer, other than the occasional short. Incidents like this don't exactly make me eager to join and see what I've been missing all this time.
I read all of your post and appreciate the acknowledgement, Allesandra. I selected the quote below because I think it strikes at the heart of the matter.
That if one says or does something that betrays a lack of consideration, a demonstration that one had not considered the other person a full human being, or considered them at all, one immediately stops doing it and apologizes.
Making your point a given for the sake of argument, how did Resnick and Malzberg violate this? Whom did they not consider a full human being in either the original anecdote or the rebuttal? To whom did they not show consideration?
This is an honest question, by the by. I mention that because it can be easy to misunderstand text arguments.
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Barry Malzberg
You can see where this line of reasoning gets us: This way to the abbatoir, ladies and gents, please stay in line ...
...the Iron Curtain and its implications had been imposed upon the population dictatorially.
The liberal fascists are trying to do this to you and your relationship with the First Amendment, and they don't want a vote either.
Mike Resnick
If they get away with censoring that [i.e. what Resnick and Malzberg wrote previously], can you imagine what comes next? I'm pretty sure Joe Stalin could imagine it. Of course Schickelgruber the painter could imagine it. Even Chairman Mao could imagine it.
Let's start with the original anecdote: It's fascinating. What a great snapshot in time for those of us too young to have experienced that period of SciFi. More importantly, Beatrice Mahaffey's looks play a role in the above-mentioned snapshot.
SciFi was a man's world back then, and that story tells us that having a beautiful woman involved in the industry cracked the door for other women to get involved in the community. Someone mentioned above that the inference in the story is that jealousy drove those wives to join the CFG. I understand how one could get that from the words, but when I read it, I took it as "Why, if a beautiful woman like that can be involved, so can I!"
I've read the six page rebuttal and the anecdote about Beatrice Mahaffey.
SciFi was a man's world back then, and that story tells us that having a beautiful woman involved in the industry cracked the door for other women to get involved in the community.
We, of all people, should be able to discuss these issues without gleefully demonizing each other. To be sure, not everyone in this thread has done so, but there's enough of it there to give me pause.
In the early conventions, a majority of attendees were women, Trouvere says. Because of that, more men started to attend, and today convention audiences are usually evenly split along gender lines.
I used to believe the script that said there were hardly any women in SF/F fandom "back in the day" and that it was a man's world.
Then I read this article about the first Star Trek convention. And looked at the photos.
The initial offense was a small one, true, a single sour note in a long discussion of the field. It could have been treated as a minor slip up, something to laugh about and correct. "Dude, that's so not cool." "Oh yes, you're right, sorry."
However, it appears that even minor attempts to bring up the issue were promptly crushed each time they came up on the SFWA forums.
The initial offense was a small one, true, a single sour note in a long discussion of the field. It could have been treated as a minor slip up, something to laugh about and correct. "Dude, that's so not cool." "Oh yes, you're right, sorry."
However, it appears that even minor attempts to bring up the issue were promptly crushed each time they came up on the SFWA forums.
And then came the latest column.
The initial problem wasn't game changing. It might have been thoughtless, or unintentional (though that opens another can of worms)
All they needed to do was say 'You're right, we got it wrong. Will try to do better next time'. Plenty of people would have thought that was fine.
On the forums, if people had said, yeah, actually it's probably not that good to diminish an editor to what she looks like in a swimsuit as opposed to say, you know, her editing skills, this whole thing wouldn't have blown up.
The real problem started when the opposite of that happened.
Those hate mail messages Ann got are disturbing. Like really frickin' creepily disturbing. Seriously. Who knew?!?!? WTF? Who thinks it's okay to write such vitriol?
So what's the answer? Do you pull out of the organization? Because staying gives money and a form of legitimacy. Do you leave? Because then all that's left is the misogynist and the organization will never change.
SFWA represents me as an SF writer, whether I am a member or not; this the professional organization which, like it or not, sets the tone and example by which people outside the industry look at us all. I don't see it as productive to publicly torch the entire organization, because it harms us as writers, and because I don't think the whole organization -- or even most of it -- is represented by the views unfortunately allowed to fester in the pages of the Bulletin. And it seems to me that mocking men for their gender is absolutely counterproductive to trying to make the point that gender shouldn't matter.Do you protest and boycott any function where these asshats are in attendance? Do you write letters to the editors of all the major newspapers? Do we show up at conventions and burn our bras? Or maybe make penis jokes that take the focus off t&a?
They do do good things, and there are good people involved. I hope that, looking back a year or two from now, this whole episode is going to sound farcically uncharacteristic for SFWA. I think what shakes out from this conflict and the conversations surrounding it will be very telling as to whether SFWA can be an effective voice for us as writers going forward.I just don't know the response. I do know that if I had ever considered being a part of swfa, that desire is gone now. And that's sad because they do good things.
I'm not convinced the core is rotten. There's a lot of really good, thoughtful people in SFWA. The leadership is elected, and certainly the most recent election was very telling on how small the percentage of the membership vested in sexist rhetoric and policies was. (Small, but not non-existent, alas.) It just appears that that minority has an unfettered voice in the form of the Bulletin.You can't say an organization is good and beneficial when the core is rotten.
Absolutely. We should be better than this.It's totally disheartening.
If you need more examples:I really hate to say it, but those are fairly common responses whenever women stand up for themselves, particularly online when people can hide behind anonymity, as these did. Rape threats, death threats, you name it, it's par for the course. It's part of the problem.
Those hate mail messages Ann got are disturbing. Like really frickin' creepily disturbing. Seriously. Who knew?!?!? WTF? Who thinks it's okay to write such vitriol?
Who knew? Seriously?
And said email was accompanied by a link to the Google map to my house, btw...
And it requires the constant, ongoing energy and work of good people who care. This isn't like growing a garden for a season -- it's like tending the dikes that keep the ocean from swallowing you.
Who knew? Seriously?
Do you think these types of things are uncommon when women stand up for themselves on the internet?
It's hard to call it a positive, per se, but at least one thing that is coming out of this discussion is a lot of women realizing that they are not alone in their experiences.