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This afternoon, the Melissa Harris-Perry show contrasted Romney's "I don't remember" dodge with George W. Bush's press conference in which he stood up and owned responsibility for his college-years DUI.I agree with this.
I personally don't think it was even necessarily primarily a gay bashing kind of thing -- at least not in the sense of hating gays. It was common to mock kids who acted "queer" without any real concept of what that meant -- it was more that they were "weird" and certainly deserved to be ostracized and made fun of.
So it's more, imo. about bullying by the alpha males of the school, the privileged, the "cool kids." And it shows an unpleasant side of Romney's personality, but not much more -- certainly nothing to disqualify him from holding office. Many unpleasant people have made effective leaders.
What most people are jumping on, and rightly, is his attempt to weasel out of it with "Gosh, I just don't remember anything like that." Again, not unusual for a politician, but Romney seems to embrace weaselness as a lifestyle choice. (Unless you believe he was born that way.)
To some extent it seems to be working, however. There are plenty of people who buy his explanation.
Now I don't have a single use for GW Bush, but he did the right thing on that. He stood up and admitted that he did it, it was wrong, he did it because he was young and stupid, and he learned his lesson from it. That was the right thing to do both ethically and politically. It was right ethically because it was honest. It was right politically because we never heard about that incident again, except in occasional jokes.
Now let's compare Romney's "I don't recall" beating a guy down with a gang and going at his hair with scissors to Bill Clinton's "I did not have sex with that woman."
I happen to think Bill Clinton was an excellent president, but he screwed that up so bad that he humiliated the whole country by it and fed the fires of a scandal that I believe would have been nothing but a brief sizzle if he'd just owned the Lewinsky affair the way Bush owned his DUI (which is a ton more serious than naughty-nookie but which did a ton less damage because of how it was handled). And what exactly did Clinton do wrong? He weaseled. He lied. He squirmed. He should have been a mensch and owned his actions, but instead he acted like a little kid trying to avoid getting grounded. It was ridiculous.
And it dogged him for years, and we still hear about it to this day, from time to time.
Romney can weasel, or he can do the thing that is both smart and honest. He's weaseling. I hesitate to say he's choosing to weasel, because for him, I'm not sure it is a choice. I do think he was likely born that way.