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Just throwing in my two cents here:
I think growing up, as I did, in the South, there are a looot of common phrases and sayings that I'm used to and didn't even realize were racist until many years later. Because I never heard them in context.
Example: my cousin was an elementary school teacher for a while, and one day she had some kind of display fixed up and didn't want the kids to touch it until she had a chance to explain it to them. One of them, a black boy, reached for it, and she heard herself say the following: "I told you to keep your cotton-picking hands off the--Oh God, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean--shit!"
Yeah. I never gave the words a second thought until she told me that story. It kind of terrifies me to think of all the people I may have unintentionally offended simply due to my Virginianness.
I think growing up, as I did, in the South, there are a looot of common phrases and sayings that I'm used to and didn't even realize were racist until many years later. Because I never heard them in context.
Example: my cousin was an elementary school teacher for a while, and one day she had some kind of display fixed up and didn't want the kids to touch it until she had a chance to explain it to them. One of them, a black boy, reached for it, and she heard herself say the following: "I told you to keep your cotton-picking hands off the--Oh God, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean--shit!"
Yeah. I never gave the words a second thought until she told me that story. It kind of terrifies me to think of all the people I may have unintentionally offended simply due to my Virginianness.