Thanks. I feel like I should be used to this, but I have this twisted hope every time I send something out. And then I wait and wait, and many months later get a dear-writer letter. It's hard not to be disappointed or discouraged. And I'm not sure what you mean by it only takes one. What's one publication going to do if not help me again publish another story? I've sold a story before. It really wasn't enough.
I mean it only takes one acceptance to sell it.
But I know how it is. I have yet to be published but on my first novel I submitted all over the place. I think I got only a few replies at all, mostly form letters of course. I got one response that asked me for more content but was ultimately rejected.
Part of me wants to tell you that as writers we are supposed to enjoy what we do, regardless of financial success, but we are also human beings who measure success by more quantitative means. And even if it's not purely about the money, publication by major companies means greater exposure. And exposure equates to being read. Which means we are reaching people. Making them see the world in a way they probably never have before.
And it sucks but, we have to keep trying, don't we?
Try not to let it get you down. There is a saying about life that also applies to writing. I'm paraphrasing but it's essentially, "Happiness is not a destination. It is a companion you can choose to take with you on your journey."
I was distraught just a few days ago and damned near ready to give up writing, but this community and it's resources have kept me going.
Sorry if there are typos, using my phone here.