Sorry to hear of your novel R, Eliza. That's one long wait for a form.
Sorry for your multiple R's Aislinn. Hope its not too much of a downer.
I love all my stories, which makes the submission process full of hope, and every rejection unexpected and painful. After a few months of not looking at a story I can often see why it might not have been perfect. But I usually still think it was pretty damn good. (It would be nice to be more realistic but I guess we're all different
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I sometimes forget about the stories I send out. I don't send out a story if I grow to hate it - there are a couple I've decided I'd prefer didn't see the light of day. I think of them all as learning experiences though, even if I realise I don't like them. Each one teaches me something new.
But the ones I keep sending out, I still like. I feel for my characters in them, and I hope they find a home.
Last year I wrote a number of things that weren't for short story submissions, so I didn't produce as many complete new shorts as I would have otherwise. I realised the other day that because of continually submitting, the majority of stories I've written and subbed have found a home, and I've developed a better feel for various markets. I only have five circulating at the moment. Desperate to finish some more off!
As well as acceptances, which are always great, the thing that encourages me is seeing my writing gradually improving.