Can I squeeze in a little bragging?
So, you guys may have heard me mention my 13yo son. The quirky, geeky, might-be-on-the-spectrum kid. The rabid atheist who collects knives and reads millions of words every year and absolutely has to tell me in minute detail how to build a nuclear reactor in Minecraft at 6:30 am and can tell you all the ways the Harry Potter movies don't follow the books, even if he read the book years before the movie came out.
He's had his challenges making friends in the past. In fact, for all of fourth grade, he sat on a bench at every recess, either reading or staring off into space, never playing or even hanging out and talking with other kids.
For years, he wouldn't go to birthday parties because he didn't like crowds...
So junior high was a bit of a transition for him, his first year not at Mom's school, new routines and friends, things that make a kid on the spectrum get a little crazy. But he did it. He settled in and by the end had made a new friend--who invited him to go off to Shaver Lake for a WEEK of camping.
Can I confess I was a little nervous? That either he'd be sick of everyone after the first day and want to come home, or that he'd say something that would offend the kid's Christian parents, or he'd starve to death because he doesn't eat normal food like hamburgers or sandwiches...
Heck, he's only been on one other sleep-over in his life, and that didn't go too well (friend's dad got drunk and crashed his truck into a tree, stranding the boys at a cousins house...)
Well, he just got back, and he had a great time. And the friend's dad said Kevin was their favorite of all the kids! Easy-going, polite, responsible.
*mom swoons*