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What do you guys think? The easy answer would of course be no, and that rape victims are usually traumatized for life, but I also know of a few who are able to move on with their lives.
I have a character who's a rape victim, but it's getting harder for me to write her into a believable scene wherein she is freely able to make love and experience pleasure despite what happened. I've written her lover to be someone gentle, who knows of her past, but re-reading their first sex scene, it didn't come across as believable to me that she would experience pleasure.
What I'm asking is, do you have any suggestions on how the guy can maybe alleviate her fears enough so she could make love to him? What should he do?
Appreciate the input
I have a character who's a rape victim, but it's getting harder for me to write her into a believable scene wherein she is freely able to make love and experience pleasure despite what happened. I've written her lover to be someone gentle, who knows of her past, but re-reading their first sex scene, it didn't come across as believable to me that she would experience pleasure.
What I'm asking is, do you have any suggestions on how the guy can maybe alleviate her fears enough so she could make love to him? What should he do?
Appreciate the input